We really do have similar tastes in music. Wow I looked at that and was like, yup, I know almost all of that. Aside from Emilie Autumn and I think I have heard of Frou Frou, but I am not sure.
And Flyleaf has always held a special place to me, got me through a lot. Skillet is good too, where I got the name of the RP from. If you haven't heard it, you should totally listen to it.
Its about a witch who is trying to re enter society after being gone for nearly a century, and finds it difficult after the supernaturals lost the supernatural wars. It's very complex, and parts of it are up in the air still, but the basic plan is pretty much that.
It depends sometimes. Like with my book, the name just came to me when I was figuring out the character, and to be honest, the title.of the book is where I started.