I don't think he necessarily hates you Duck, more so, finds you an aggravating nuisance. While the OP was intriguing, I'm starting to regret even giving this roleplay a second thought. While everyone has decently made Nations it not only seems that you are the only one being unrealistic but causing unrealistic nature amongst the others. Tie that in with your past of what I' ve heard so far? May as well had the cars from Disney's cars in here, in space. Oh, don't forget to give them each nukes.
What I sense from you is a "I do it because I can." Don't worry, I know you don't outright attack everyone, but that's the problem. From what I've heard and scene, you don't do anything but wait until someone crosses you and pull out the jackhammer on their ass. You require a rushed scenario with an unlimited customization and every weapon possible to put down anyone who disagrees with you.
Worst part? You're best pals with the OP. Which pretty much allows you to make a carebear army if you wanted. This is Command and Conquer in space woth time increased ten fold ready and waiting for someone to make the wrong move and ahatter the declaration of an alliance just to pop them open.
I thought we were building Nations, not playing Russian Roulette, and we can't even have a chance to pull the trigger.