So, to put it quite simply (to make sure I understand, because fancy language is great, but I like to be concise and just get my point across), the character can have former training or affiliations with the Night Kiss, but no one knows each other at all and the most someone could know is if they've only heard of someone else. Correct?
I've got a fair amount of stuff on my plate and (unfortunately) a lot more than usual at the moment. After March 8th, my schedule will free up considerably, however.