Kaga said
You could've just said you wanted to get to know people better if that was your goal. Sorry for ranting specifically at you, though - I was really irked more by the general trend affecting the 2nd wave of Spamfics than by you in particular.
Point taken. Thing is, I'm pretty much a person of the moment and I'm not as capable of planning things out as other people are. It's only when I've already followed through with one thing that I immediately realize I could have done it differently and better. That, and I seem to be a magnet for people's ire without trying to be.
Understandable that you'd be annoyed by trends like that.
Now that I've had some more time to think things through, I've got some ideas around folks in Spam running around my head now.