So, if anyone cares why I dissapeared for about two months, basically breakups suck. Note that I didn't say "women suck" since that would be false. This is in no means supposed to be a women bashing or a men bashing thread.

I got this idea off another board and basically you post the first name of who she/he is and why they got away. Who is she/he? She/he is the one that got away. The one that lingers in your mind. The one whose name has been sitting at the top of your tongue. The one whose hugs still feel warm.

You know who they are.

To provide an example, I'll go first.

Name - Nichole

Why - I was too daft to catch a hint. I pushed when I should of pulled and asked when I should of listened. By the time I realized it, she was already gone.

Name: Ally

why- I was carrying the baggage of a war, and a previous girlfriend years before who was a total bitch. So i was too damaged and eventually i gave up, she left. She was probably the greatest girl I have ever known.