You're not unfair, you just act rather aggressive whenever you mention that someone hasn't posted. Mentioning your character is going to die is rather blunt, saying like 'are you still there' would have the same affect without someone having to match that manner. I would also appreciate if Chromite gave something for Soapstone to do, because I noticed there isn't any type of main plot going on, it is mainly just people interacting with each other in various manners, it would be great if there was some type of plot to get the gems to do something.