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Okay, this is gonna be my last response to you, and I'm going to go through everything in excruciating detail because you clearly still either haven't read or haven't understood the majority of what I've said, whether because I am explaining it badly or whatever. If you still don't see my point after this, then I suppose we just don't see eye-to-eye, but I don't see how the view I am trying to communicate is in any way contentious.
You're wrong. Simply put, your opinion is stupid because it infers that people have a right to be 'sick' (what the fuck, who would actually be sick for this, lol) just because they dislike this man. That they have a right to be sick because he represents their country.
"To be sick to your stomach" is a common phrase, meaning "feeling very upset, worried, or angry." Quite obviously, actively throwing up would be somewhat excessive. But considering you think anybody being even upset about this apparently throws the entirety of democracy out the window, this is irrelevant anyway.
Do you know what that is called? Representative democracy. This is how it works. Trump now represents them, because people voted for him. The majority voted for him, in fact, and so he is now the president and therefore the representation of the American people. And yes I do find it entitled that you're asking for people to not say that it's hysterical to be upset about it, because this is the democratic process. You knew this before you voted, the whole process of voting showed a persons participation in the democratic process and I find it very very hard to believe that someone has a right to be sick (disappointed maybe, but should be accepting never the less) just because their preferred candidate didn't win. If it had been the other way around, Trump supporters would've been upset too. But being sick? That's fucking irrational.
I really don't understand your point here - you seem to be implying that it is anti-democratic to feel strongly against the result of any democratic vote. This is flat-out not the case. To accept that Trump received a higher numerical count of votes, as per the democratic voting system of the US, and that because of this Trump is the president of the US... to accept that absolutely does not mean that a person cannot also absolutely fucking hate him, his ideas, and the fact that this means Trump now represents said person.
I'll utilise a different example from my own country - Brexit. I voted to Remain in the EU during the referendum. The majority of voters did not, and voted to Leave. I accept that the verdict of the referendum was to leave the EU. And that fact makes me very angry and upset and disappointed in my fellow countrymen, and about the future and wellfare of my country. This is not anti-democratic of me. I accept the democratic process. I just intensely dislike the decision, and what it implies about me and my country.
My point originally was to say that people absolutely have a right to feel like this about Trump's presidency, too. I'm paraphrasing here, but earlier in the thread, someone said they felt sick that Donald Trump had won, as in, they were extremely upset by the election results. Another person, in response, said that they should calm down, that it wasn't the end of the world, and that Trump wasn't going to cause an apocalypse. This directly inspired my first post, and the opinion I am trying to convey: that it isn't right to dismiss someone who is sickened by this election result as just having succumbed to blind sensationalist hysteria about how Trump is going to destroy the world. That's shooting down a straw man; the real reason people are sickened by this result is because Trump is,
provably, a vile human being (unless, of course, you disagree that racist comments, shady business practice, serial sexual abuse and confessing to watching underage girls undress, among other things, makes you pretty vile, which most people do not disagree with.) And people are deeply unnerved, uncomfortable, and disturbed in the extreme by having such a man be the leader of their country, and acting as their democratic representative. Again, this is not unreasonable or undemocratic, as outlined above, and I struggle to see how this is "entitled", either.
Put it this way, to make the point extremely blatant: if I resurrected Hitler, and he became the leader of your country, how would you feel? You'd dislike this fact intensely, correct? You'd have voted against him, but democracy means he won his seat. This does not mean you have to support Hitler, and that you cannot hate the fact that Hitler is now the leader of your country. This is not to compare Trump and Hitler in terms of policy or whatever, I just chose a figure from history I could be pretty sure you'd strongly dislike acting as your leader (put Stalin or Genghis Khan or Pol Pot, or Maggie Thatcher for the Scottish, or whatever equivalent you like in there, instead, it doesn't matter.)
I also get the idea that you really really dislike Trump much more than you dislike Clinton or any other random candidate, as you called him a large variety of words. The fact that you put his campaign away as a shitshow shows that much to me.
I do intensely dislike Trump. More than words can express, in fact. He disgusts me. But, then again, so does Clinton. Again, my point is not really related to this. The only reason it was Trump I focused on is because he's the candidate who won and, thus, is the one that people are having these conversations about.
And yes you are being fucking hysterical, because path dependency, legal obligations for Trump and limitations on his power are put in place especially in the United States of America where states have a large amount of autonomy in and of their own. You act as if he's about to declare the empire of Trumpia, where as he's not even in fucking office yet. There are so many policy-making obstacles to overcome for him that thinking anything other than 'it'll be okay' is stupid.
Right! Lovely, yes. See, this is why I'm rather sure you didn't actually read anything I said properly. My
entire point is that:
People who feel sick (angry, upset,
whatever) over the election result do not feel so because they think Trump is going to cause an apocalypse! It is not because they think things won't be okay, that WWIII is coming, that he is going to turn the US into the empire of Trumpia. My point, from the very beginning, has been to say that the contents of your above paragraph is just shooting a straw man.
My point is that people feel sick because Trump is a vile human being that they do not want as their representative. People feel ill that their society, their culture, is one that elected a sexist, racist, negative-but-accurate-adjective pig. The point of a democratic representative is to, well,
represent you, and people feel horrified that the man who will be making decisions in their name is so awful. They know it isn't some apocalyptic event; that isn't why they hate this so much.
Again, imagine how you would feel should your fellow countrymen vote in Hitler (or Stalin or Pol Pot or whatever.) Imagine how you would feel when Hitler met with the leaders of other countries to represent you. It would feel pretty disgusting, wouldn't it? So, perhaps you can understand my point now. Sure, even if Hitler was voted in as your country's leader, there are limits in place so that he could not do horrible things - but that isn't the point. The point is, he's an awful vile person, and you do not want him representing you and your country.
I also think it is very ironic you say something about 'not declaring who you supported' but simultaneously assuming what I was trying to imply. I don't know who you supported, it obviously wasn't Trump, you're visibly upset with the outcome (and as you say, sick with it?) and I find that stupid because this is the outcome of a democratic process we all agreed upon.
I think nobody has a right to be sick. I think everyone has a right and obligation to suck it up and vote more wisely in the next election. But yes, Trump will represent them, and despite what you seem to believe, representative democracy ensured that as a majority wished for Trump to represent them. Therefore, mob law is rule. No need to be upset, only to accept what has happened and use it as a lesson in the future, no?
Sorry, but, again, I very much struggle to understand this view you have that people are not allowed to be upset over this without calling Trump's right to presidency into question. Just because you accept that he is now the president and that, whether you like it or not, he will be representing you, does not mean you have to like this fact in any way. You can actively despise this fact, actually, and are completely within your rights to. Yes, everyone is going to have to suck it up and deal with it, because you can't overthrow the majority vote. But how on earth does that mean you have to blithely accept it and shrug your shoulders? People have a right to hate what has happened, to be worried about it, to express that they still disagree with the majority. Indeed, I think it's an extremely positive thing for democracy for people to express when they are unhappy with their representatives. Your version of democracy seems to rely on people having no mind of their own as soon as the majority vote is in.
Furthermore your insinuation that the rest of the world now has to see Trump as the pinnacle of American society is laughable at best. Come on. Be more creative. I never saw Obama as the pinnacle of American society, so I will never see Trump as pinnacle of American society. Presidents are just people. If you think otherwise you're dehumanizing the most human process in the world, namely governance.
Well, unfortunately, that is sort of what the point of electing a representative is? Perhaps "pinnacle of society" was poor phrasing, but I can't help feeling you're being intentionally obtuse here. Obviously, the point of an elected representative is essentially "the views of this person are the views of our country." In other words, by electing Trump, America has declared that Trump is the person who is most representative of them and their society.
Representative. Not just
a representative, as a person. His views and personality are now representative of the US' views and personality, so to speak, because the majority of Americans voted him in and thus declared that his thinking is in line with their own. If the majority of the people say "I agree with that guy", then of course the views of "that guy" are the primary way the rest of the world sees the society/people he is from. This is literally the point of an elected representative.
This was what I was getting at when I said he is now the "pinnacle of American society". Poor phrasing, but whatever, it's clarified now.
And, of course, I think it's quite reasonable for, say, a sexual abuse survivor to be sickened by the fact that Donald Trump, a self-confessed serial sexual abuser, to be their representative on the world stage, and the man the rest of the world sees as representative of the survivor's society and, actually, of the survivor themselves as an individual in that society.
And to be honest your last sentence is what bothers me most. It's not anybody's fault that Trump and Clinton were the only two choices other than that of the American people. If you want to be angry be angry at the American people as a collective for being such a shitty people that they allowed these people to get to to the top. It's not this 'vile mans' fault that they gave him the chance to become president. He simply took it.
You know that meme about 'how did we allow these 2 clowns to become candidates' said the country mourning the death of a gorilla 6 months after it's death? It's fucking true. The anger is misplaced if it is directed at Trump. Rather people should invest more time into knowing a candidate, but also in knowing the political process in the USA. It's fucking mind boggling that people still believe Clinton is the 'lesser evil' for example.
I can be angry at Trump for being a shitty human being, which I am. And I am pissed at the American populace for electing him, and for having their only viable candidates be two of the worst fucking candidates I've ever seen. The whole thing is a disgrace.
But again, if you'd
actually read anything I've said, you'd realise none of that is at all relevant to my original point.... which was all to do with how people have a right to be sickened by Trump being their representative, and that dismissing those people as being hysterical apocalypse-callers is shooting down a straw man. Indeed, I actually
very clearly stated this in my last post: "I'm less pissed off that Trump won, and more pissed off at those people who agree that Trump is abhorrent, and yet are also saying that anyone who is seriously, deeply concerned about that fact is "hysterical"."
With that, I'm done. If there's any confusion left, I rather give up on this discussion and will agree to disagree with you without any need for further discussion.