No, you were only asking if it was too soon to transform/change. That means you were thinking about it, and your previous post reads to lead to her changing.
This has nothing to do with any of my input, because I already answered your question.
If you're really this hung up and clueless how to continue, then I suppose there is no way to do so, because i'm not going to tell you what to post.
im sorry if this sounds harsh, but its the reality of the situation.