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I guess you never lose confidence in yourself that way!


If your confidence comes from others, they can tear you down whenever they want. Exactly.
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If your confidence comes from others, they can tear you down whenever they want. Exactly.


Doesn’t it get lonely?
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Doesn’t it get lonely?


Lonely? I mean, nothing about not outsourcing your confidence says you can’t also enjoy others’ company. Nor does it mean you can’t appreciate when others respect you or your capabilities.
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Lonely? I mean, nothing about not outsourcing your confidence says you can’t also enjoy others’ company. Nor does it mean you can’t appreciate when others respect you or your capabilities.


But does it mean you value it?
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But does it mean you value it?


Yeah, of course. Just not in a way that lives or dies by it and it alone.
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Yeah, of course. Just not in a way that lives or dies by it and it alone.


It sorta sounds like you don’t consider it at all.
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It sorta sounds like you don’t consider it at all.


Not for my own opinion of myself, I don’t. I like what I do, I enjoy what I do, and if something I make or do is not something that I like, then it gets redone, or binned entirely. If others see value in it too, then great. That means I’m on my A-game, or that they can relate, or the quality is high, or all of the above. But if something exists with my name on it, you can bet that I enjoyed it and thought it was worth.
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Not for my own opinion of myself, I don’t. I like what I do, I enjoy what I do, and if something I make or do is not something that I like, then it gets redone, or binned entirely. If others see value in it too, then great. That means I’m on my A-game, or that they can relate, or the quality is high, or all of the above. But if something exists with my name on it, you can bet that I enjoyed it and thought it was worth.


The quality is too high?
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The quality is too high?


Huh?
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Huh?


Like, if you’re making something for someone else, do they ever get jealous because they couldn’t do something like that, and take it out on you?
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Like, if you’re making something for someone else, do they ever get jealous because they couldn’t do something like that, and take it out on you?


When you become popular enough to be called famous by any metric, you do garner haters by nature. I’m sure something like that is the sad truth to their motivation.
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When you become popular enough to be called famous by any metric, you do garner haters by nature. I’m sure something like that is the sad truth to their motivation.


Do you get a lot of haters?
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Do you get a lot of haters?


Now, definitely. Before, depends. It’d be a big number if you counted them, but there are a lot of people in the IA who have at least heard my name before. Like a lot.
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Now, definitely. Before, depends. It’d be a big number if you counted them, but there are a lot of people in the IA who have at least heard my name before. Like a lot.


So it sorta balances out?
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So it sorta balances out?


I’d say percent-wise, it was small before. Now it’s much more.
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I’d say percent-wise, it was small before. Now it’s much more.


What do you do about it?
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What do you do about it?


Another difference depending on before versus now. Absolutely nothing before. People are gonna hate, and it is what it is. Now, though? When I was slandered and falsely accused of major crimes? Well, that’s a work in progess tied to stuff we talked about before we came here.
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Another difference depending on before versus now. Absolutely nothing before. People are gonna hate, and it is what it is. Now, though? When I was slandered and falsely accused of major crimes? Well, that’s a work in progess tied to stuff we talked about before we came here.


That sounds more like harassment!
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That sounds more like harassment!


It’s a lot of things, really.
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Man, hot water is sooo nice for loosening up.
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It’s a lot of things, really.
*Tilts my head back and faces straight up*
Man, hot water is sooo nice for loosening up.


I like this spring cuz it’s so peaceful. And the owners are just adorable.
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