Sorry to bother you, but I was taking a look at the character tab and couldn't help but notice that your Altmer character was 25. I'm unsure how Altmers age, but wouldn't 25 be considered infancy for such a long living race?
Looking at Barenziah and Ayrenn, it seems like elves reach maturity in a similar time frame to human. It is only after they reach maturity do aging decelerate. In Vurwe's case, she is still callow despite her travels.