While everyone was talking Decker texted Jess again and misunderstood what she meant so she decided to apologize and explain.
Dear Decker,
I know your parents did an excellent job in raising you. You are joining the academy and risking your life daily for the good of the people! I know you can be nice, and you are careful. I promise to not talk about your family again.
I agree to not contact you in anyway tomorrow because I know its a special day for you. Don't worry.
You are right. I do not know why you became a jerk. I think it has something to do with getting ignored at a crucial point in your life and now you refuse to be ignored no matter what. That is understandable. I don't know what you have gone through, but at the same time you do not know what I have gone through, and am going through. You don't know if I would understand you or not, but don't assume.
I hope you let me try to help you sort out issues you have. I will leave you alone for the rest of the night and tomorrow so you can have a good day.
Good night.