I'ma tread on old ground here, probably something that was already cleared up, agreed on, whatever, that I don't remember because I read this entire thread at one in the morning and I'm tired.
I was born and raised Catholic. The tenants of Catholicism were not driven into my skull with a hammer. During Mass, the younger children would go to a small class for the first half of church, and we would learn things in a simpler manner. Some of it would be bible studies, and other things would be just kids having fun. However, these little classes, along with Sunday school, helped in shape my morals. And, they also taught us to question things. They liked it when we asked questions. Especially my priests.
Now, when I started to get older, especially in middle and the early years of high school, I started to question things far more seriously. And I did it on my own time, through my own logical thought processes, and by reading the bible. And here's what I've come up with: You should not need any sort of religion to be a moral person. Morality, from what I've been able to figure, comes from how you were raised, who you were raised by, and who was around you. What you experienced growing up, how you experienced it. The school system did very, very little to show children anything about morals or what was good/bad. My parents and the church taught me that. And then when I got old enough to think for myself, I molded those ideals into what my moral standpoint.
Now, I remember somewhere on this thread, someone asked: If you were raised without any sort of outside stimuli until you were an adult, and then thrust into the world, would you have morals? I do not believe so, on the grounds that you wouldn't know much of anything. How would you know if something was right or wrong? I can say that I wouldn't, and I can say that I believe others would not.
I also want to say something about empathy. Empathy, the ability to feel what others feel, and emotional connection to the world, is an ideal that not everyone will join in on. My opinion is, if there no religious dictates or secular laws preventing many things, such as theft or murder, then what would stop people from doing it other than their own morality? If there were never any religious or secular laws preventing those things, where would the moral standpoint on it have come from? One man may feel bad because this other man had all of his things stolen from him, but it wouldn't be like anything wrong was done, because nothing would have dictated that it was so.
On to what I remember being said as: Proof that good can come out of Religion that can't come out of something secular, or something along those lines. In all honesty, I cannot say that there is. But, the same can be said for the bad things that come out of Religion. People have wars for religion, and people have wars for politics. A parent may feel that gay marriage is wrong because God said so, or they may believe it is wrong, simply because they don't practice it. Either way, it is still a bad opinion to have. The fact of the matter is, one man may do something bad because his religion allowed it, whereas another would do the same without the need for religion allowing it.
My whole point is: Religion is both good and bad, has good and bad, and will always have good and bad. Why is that? Because it was made by humans, and we have both good and evil in us. If you wish to believe that the entire structure of Religion is evil, that is your belief, but the way we were taught as children through religion was not what you (Magic Magnum) say (or at least seem to be saying, to my eyes) it is.
Since we are on beliefs: Brovo, your idea of seeing = believing is one that I can respect, even if I disagree with it. I was born and raised Catholic, and even though I've moved away from Catholicism in a lot of things, I still believe in a God of some sort, far more benevolent and passionate than the one Christianity champions. But that veers off into something Magnum said earlier about religion breaking off into more and more splinter groups. However, a belief in something that cannot be seen can help a lot of people, as it provides a sort of hope that they would otherwise be without. Yes, it can be detrimental to others, however that should not be used against those that it could benefit. Though I don't believe you were trying to persuade anyone into your way of believing, I just wanted to touch on that subject.
But, I feel I am ranting and I can barely follow anything I'm typing at this point, so I'm going to quit here, and hope that what I've wrote down doesn't just appear as a jumbled mess but as something that looks at least a bit coherent. If it is a mess, than I apologize for that and will blame it on my being tired as hell.