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7 yrs ago
Current Apparently being able to sleep through the night is too much to ask. Getting real tired of waking up at 2am.
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7 yrs ago
Merry Christmas Ya Filthy Animals
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7 yrs ago
sobs went from one type of sick to another i can barely breathe :(
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7 yrs ago
Finally home! Will be able to work on replies soon I promise :)
7 yrs ago
I followed that with getting incredibly sick! Fun lol
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Bio

Hello hello I am Rica.

I'm a 27 year old retail worker who enjoys general nerdy shit, I spend most of my time playing video games and often pausing to roleplay in between. Because I apparently can't do anything without multitasking.

I'm forgetful and easily distracted so I tend to wander away without thinking. Generally sort of a space case.

I mostly roleplay content involving queer people and especially queer women so I'm usually searching for one-on-one roleplays involving FxF pairings.

If you wanna roleplay with me, PM me! We can plan there or if you'd rather email or talking OOC through discord I can provide that for you as well.

Also AIM because I have at least one person I'm still using that for.

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It's why I so freely discuss these things because if we keep silent the more likely we are to continue these weird little culture things. The status quo isn't quo. It doesn't work for everyone and it hurts people. Even if just subtly.

The more we break down these silly little things, the more everyone can live a happy fulfilling life because they're being taken care of not caused to silently suffer because no one wants to admit anything is wrong.
@Vilageidiotx I mean people could celebrate "Thank God we aint gay." But that sort of proves the fact that we have Gay Pride Month for a reason and it's for that exact attitude that being non-heterosexual is subtly perceived as being lesser.

Even some people who are allies have subtle reactions that say this because it's been implied all our lives.

I don't think heterosexual people understand how rough that is. To have it silently agreed that you at worst a perverted monster, at best an inferior being. It messes with your head, man.

I see it in all my queer friends. Which is why when people first come out they tend to go for the extremes. The sudden rush of pride in yourself for being who you are creates a very uncompromising attitude because you never want to go back to pretending to be anything else.
@RocketmanThat's the thing it's not a normal emotional desire. It comes up every June.

What is June?

Gay Pride Month.

It's a direct response to the concept that other people are getting attention that is being perceived as 'special'. Rather than necessary, or perhaps even just a decent thing to do considering the very checkered history society has with the LGBTQ+ community.

You're being largely obtuse if you think it's somehow desirable to be in a position where having to have our own month and parades is even necessary in the first place.

I would absolutely love it if Gay Pride Month was unnecessary. I would love if we were at a point in the world, or hell were never at a point to begin with, that pride parades and chants and a whole culture of strength weren't necessary.

There is nothing that would make me happier than if I would walk through the world like a straight person.

I know what it's like. I remember what it's like when I was 13 and didn't realize the truth. I could even potentially keep that feeling of walking through the world like a heterosexual because unless I say something most people assume I'm heterosexual anyway.

But it's for that exact reason we need these things. In case you haven't noticed the concept of 'coming out' is such a painfully goddamn heterosexual thing because unless you say otherwise you might as well be heterosexual.

We have everything to be prideful about. Being out. Being alive. Surviving. Living. Not letting society drag us down. Creating an entire culture of our own within a world that wanted us to go the fuck away.

To be entirely frank, heterosexual people do not have anything to be prideful about. They don't have anything specifically successful as a community to say 'This is what we did.'

Because heterosexual people have never had to face adversity for the pure fact they are heterosexual. You guys have had the world handed to you on the silver platter, when it comes to sexual orientation.

This and being able to select more than one PM
@Dynamo Frokane. Don't you mean ;)?
There's an image going around from tumblr that basically explains it. It's from the point of view of a physically disabled person who had to deal with similar reactions over their disability.



What people aren't understanding is that black people and gay people aren't getting preferred attention or bonuses. The 'bonuses' they're getting comes with a FUCK ton of baggage.

And on top of that this is two weeks after 49 queer men and women were killed.

That is why people cringe at the concept. We have these things because we are literally being murdered for existing. Heterosexual people don't have to deal with that.

We would love to not have to need or want parades and history months. But the Pulse incident proved we're a long way from not needing it.

@Pair of Hearts



I'm ok darling!
@Pair of Hearts That and personal experience -shudders-

@Vilageidiotx Same though. Up erry night to get tropin'
Goodness I disappear for some time and it gets downright sinful in here
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