I don't think you understand. Your creating a character based solely on either relying or being reliant to others. In the real world, were you born to serve your brother or sister? No. Everyone has their own path, agenda, life goals. Creating a character that helps others in hopes of getting help finding his parents murderers is like gowing to a waterpark in hopes that others will teach you how to swim. Its just backwards.
Its not that you want to interact with other players, its that your building a character just for that very reason