So I made a bet with my friend that if he told his crush that he likes her, I would tell him who is my crush. My problem is that I'm bisexual and I like the guy (Marco) that he know, not only that but all of my friends know now; because he told them as well. So I will have to tell anyone now and I'm scare of the reactions that I get and the outcome. Any tips?

Edit: Most of my friends act like 8-9th grades, but some are more mature than the others.

i think youre asking to get trolled in spam, what made you decide to post it here instead of off topic or the members lounge

code gary said
i think youre asking to get trolled in spam, what made you decide to post it here instead of off topic or the members lounge

My god, I really want to agree with this post, but times have changed code, we actually kind of give out advice now. Unless they are a mutually hated person in spam, any hostile post here would be seen as taboo.

I am a bit confused, you say all your friends already know that you're bi.
So why are you scared of the reactions if they were already told?

Unless if you mean "They know, but not through you. And you worry about how they'll react the next time you see them".
If that's the case (I'll assume it is for now, otherwise I have no idea what you're even asking), I will note my advice is limited because I don't know your friends personally so I have to go on a 'on average for 8-9th graders' assumption rather than predict specific people.

So with that assumption made, I would expect a few jokes and trolling by your friends to be made about your sexuality. But I doubt you're going to get shunned or actually end up having friends being hostile. Mainly because if they were going to react badly, you probably would have already known cause they would felt some need to freak out at you through text or something.

Cpt Toellner said My god, I really want to agree with this post, but times have changed code, we actually kind of give out advice now. Unless they are a mutually hated person in spam, any hostile post here would be seen as taboo.

[2] Basically what I was gonna say.
Like if say I asked for advice in spam, I'd probably have some people offer help but also have a lot of people going "Fuck you, we don't want you here".
But someone who isn't as unpopular would probably get more support than trolling.

Rare said
So I made a bet with my friend that if he told his crush that he likes her, I would tell him who is my crush. My problem is that I'm bisexual and I like the guy (Marco) that he know, not only that but all of my friends know now; because he told them as well. So I will have to tell anyone now and I'm scare of the reactions that I get and the outcome. Any tips?Edit: Most of my friends act like 8-9th grades, but some are more mature than the others.

>playful bet results in OP coming out as bisexual to everyone he knows

Well, my friends don't know and never have. And I didn't say that they knew unless you have proof.

Rare said My problem is that I'm bisexual and I like the guy (Marco) that he know, not only that but all of my friends know now; because he told them as well.

^

Cpt Toellner said
My god, I really want to agree with this post, but times have changed code, we actually kind of give out advice now. Unless they are a mutually hated person in spam, any hostile post here would be seen as taboo.

thats fucking disgusting

Cpt Toellner said
My god, I really want to agree with this post, but times have changed code, we actually kind of give out advice now. Unless they are a mutually hated person in spam, any hostile post here would be seen as taboo.

thats fucking disgusting

Everything has become very clichey, if you are out, you are hated, if you are in you are tolerated and loved, it matters not what you do.

Cpt Toellner said
Everything has become very clichey, if you are out, you are hated, if you are in you are tolerated and loved, it matters not what you do.

there will be something to create a rift in this trend eventually

its still a shitty idea to do anything personal here, from what ive read most of the hot shots created a skype posse, if youre involved in that great but if you want to talk to actual human beings with morality and sense of reasoning you should go to the other sections

code gary said
there will be something to create a rift in this trend eventuallyits still a shitty idea to do anything personal here, from what ive read most of the hot shots created a skype posse, if youre involved in that great but if you want to talk to actual human beings with morality and sense of reasoning you should go to the other sections

Is a member of the Skype posse.

Cpt Toellner said it matters not what you do.

Well at least I know it's me and not... me.
Nailed it.

code gary said there will be something to create a rift in this trend eventuallyits still a shitty idea to do anything personal here, from what ive read most of the hot shots created a skype posse, if youre involved in that great but if you want to talk to actual human beings with morality and sense of reasoning you should go to the other sections

Is not a member of Skype Posse.
Personally if you want a more serious-toned or complicated discussion my first pick would be OT.
But I will note that if someone is popular enough in spam they can successfully pull one off in spam without hostility in response.

Magic Magnum said
Well at least I know it's me and not... me

Shut the fuck up you disgusting sack of slime.