Name
Jessamae Ramona Chalkley
(She goes by Jessa)Age
31 years
Gender
Female
Sexuality
Homosexual
Number of kids
Tristan James (8 years), Valentina Charlyn (5 years)
Where do you live?
In a nice neighborhood with decent houses
Favorite things
Dancing, outdoor activities, competitive games (pictionary, charades, dance offs,
board games, card games, sports,
anything), goofing around, summer, the beach, horseback riding
Least favorite things
Parent Evening's at school, tight up people, authorities, being lied to
Dog or Cat or Other?
I don't own a pet.
You could take dogs on runs... so that's cool.
But I wouldn't really mind either.
Eating habits?
Nothing worth mentioning.
Occupation
I used to be a professional dancer. Now I am a dance teacher and choreographer.
If good occasions arrive to dance, I'll take them. But due to my two kids, I don't have such a flexible schedule anymore.
Zodiac and how you feel about it
Gemini
I don't know much about zodiacs and don't really care for them.
I looked up what my zodiac plus birth date meant... seems fitting I guess. That's all I can say.
Activity Level
I love being active. I used to work out daily, but it got less and less with the kids around. I still try to work out every now and then or at least go for a run two or three days per week though. Dancing keeps me active as well. And those rascals have a way of chasing me around a lot.
Smoker?
Never
Would you date a smoker?
I would prefer if they weren't smoking, but I am staying open minded.
Describe your perfect date
I would hope we'd be doing something that we both enjoy. I have found that I find active first dates more appealing than sit-down-dates. So swimming, hiking, going out dancing, playing a little bit 1x1 basketball, table tennis while listening to extremely silly or bad songs to throw us off and make fun of. I am always up for going just a little crazy and creative. Jumphouse would be so silly funny. Going indoor climbing. Or even dressing each other up in ridiculous clothes and walking through town, pretending we're tourists. Or doing a 'fast food restaurant' testing, in which we would each order two pieces and then move to the next spot until we're too full. I like silly little things that aren't planned out, like drawing and explaining each other's houses and cars without ever knowing what they may look like. It's a funny little game, will make us laugh, break the ice and offers for a lot of character insight. Going karaoke singing spontaneously is definitely a way to break all the ice. I wouldn't mind going camping for a night, just the two of us.
So that's a couple of random ideas. I don't have a specific 'perfect date', because the company makes it perfect and not a date that is neatly planned out. I like having room to be spontaneous.
Give us how you would describe your personality
I consider myself a little silly, I like goofing around and don't mind making a fool out of myself occasionally. Sport loving is definitely a personalty trait of mine. Weither or not I am good at the sport doesn't matter much, I just like moving my muscles. I'd like to think I am kind and understanding, at least most of the time. I am spontaneous rather than planned out. Most of my life doesn't have a plan. I don't have much discipline when it comes to household things. I can't stand cleaning, I can't cook, I often am in a hurry in the mornings and have to run through grocery stores to be on time. On the counterpart I am rather disciplined when dancing. I can go from serious to silly in a heartbeat if it isn't inappropriate in the situation. I try to talk things out instead of running away, I believe that communication is the key to a healthy relationship - romantic, friendly, motherly, or whatever.