Different points of views are no reason for a catfight, so to speak.
Elsa is choosing a very common tactic in dealing with being captured against one's will.
Bodil is choosing the opposite.
Both have stories of success and failure.
That is all.
And my comment wasn't solely directed at anyone. Bodil's might be in the RP, but not mine here in the OOC. After all, pretty much everyone in the group has condemned Bodil for her behavior, so it was a broad observation.
Edit: Also, though it may seem hard to believe, she isn't trying to piss the Fox off, but is using him as a scapegoat for all of her feelings of frustration and helplessness. Of course he disgusts her too, so there is that, but she is mainly using him a lightning rod for all of her feelings.