@shylarah No you do not need to change Sini. Just keep that fact in mind. And I believe Nyx's character was changed because last I understood. His father was a Mara who impregnated his mother. *Raises hand* I cannot check and I do not wish for this to become a stressed topic again. You asked, I answer as I saw fit. As I said this is a work in progress and I did a huge overhaul when I took that break to get my head on right. I cannot keep all the details straight for everyone's character especially when I've just had a melt down over the drama that happened.
It's not a death sentence generally, it's frowned upon and often they will be taken as indentured servants. Some do remain free from this, but most will live in these No Man Lands with other 'half-breeds'. The 'wild' Fae. I stated that these existed before I believe. Falk's people encourage them to go to Falk and often will bring him half-breeds to take the name of. Some even raid these towns, though it's not common and Falk doesn't encourage it. This has generally been ceased since the war of Summer and Winter as those areas were dangerous.
As for indentured servants... They are servants who are forced into it. Better than slavery but not 'free'. Ransoming... Captured after switch borders; which is generally trespassing if you don't go through the proper channels. Ransoming them back to their original Court covers several things, it lets the Rulers have the option to seize back Fae who crossed- especially valuable Fae. Like Falk with the Mara for instance, or Aisling if she had tried. Then it also lets the family have chance to free their kin. It's not overly common in Falk's court but he does use it to get spies into other Courts.
That timeline is if what I know, if
@Belle or
@BlackPanther wish to discuss adding a war, or add a war in their history. It will be added, Again. Work in Progress here.
Duress is freely. Threats are freely. So long as it's not pulled out of the mind or mouth by potion, or magic the name can be used. Torture is HIGHLY frowned upon and had since the ancient days, for the getting of a name. Life can be made difficult, words can be spoken (Not magic but words, talk/gossip/blackmail). Trickery, bribery. If someone wants a name they can try to get it. But most Fae will not give up a name, because of how powerful names are.