What non physical quality do you find most attractive in another person? And the least attractive, while we're at it?
ImANargleHunter said
What non physical quality do you find most attractive in another person? And the least attractive, while we're at it?
Magic Magnum said
Most: Open-mindednessI should note the other highest are Kindness and Intelligence, but if you're either one (or both) of those but not open minded you become a very different kind of person that turns into a personality type I have a pet peeve for.And those would end up being my least:-Just Kind: The kind who acts nice, but silences out and is suddenly not kind to those who think or act differently (This is a huge pet peeve cause my Mom is like this)-Just Smart: Knows a lot, but sits around just bragging about it making others feel dumb rather than listening to other ideas and theories that may also be Intelligent.-Both: Less of an issue really, but still being stuck in their one way of thinking would wear off on me over time.
Doivid said
I feel you on the least even tho they're not my least, but I definitely totally agree with most. open mindedness is just terrific.
ImANargleHunter said
What non physical quality do you find most attractive in another person? And the least attractive, while we're at it?
Hank said
Most: spontaneity. Or at least being engaging and interesting. I like being surprised and captivated, especially if it's combined with a great sense of humor. Least: I don't really know. Arrogance, perhaps. And that's different from (over)confidence. That might sound funny coming from me but there's a difference between what I do and someone who genuinely regards others as inferior and acts snooty or sneering. I can't stand that.
ImANargleHunter said
I get what you mean. Confidence is charming, but false superiority is gross.
Sherlock Holmes said
Most attractive qualities: Intelligence (the smarter they are, the more attractive they seem to become) and/or a good sense of humor.Least attractive qualities: Poor manners and/or dislikes (or is mean to) animals. Also, excessive swearing.