I Dunno

[andromedene]

I have to go to this party thing tonight and my mom is willing to buy me alcohol because it's BYOB but I don't know if I actually want to drink.

I told the host that I don't want to stay overnight which means I'll have to go home tipsy if I drink. I just find the idea embarrassing.

[Lady Squee]

You have to go? Why don't you just not go?

[andromedene]

I'm kind of obligated or else I'll look like a gigantic prick. Also I have a friend who's kind of counting on me being there.

[mbl]

Aren't you like 15? And your parents are offering to buy you alcohol for a drinking party that you are going to without them? Fucking Canada.

[Lady Squee]

Peer Pressure at its finest.

If you don't want to go, don't go.
If you want to go but don't want to drink, don't drink.
If you want to go and want to drink, why doesn't your mother just pick you up so you won't be driving tipsy?

Honestly, the feeling of embarrassment is fucking stupid. Do what you want. Don't worry about not looking cool.

[mbl]

If you're worried about driving home drunk to the point that you don't want to drink, then don't drink. It shouldn't be a problem; as someone who parties with stoner alcoholics, I'll tell you it really isn't that big of a deal, unless your friends are a bunch of dickish noob-drinkers.

[Lady Squee]

mbl said
If you're worried about driving home drunk to the point that you don't want to drink, then don't drink. It shouldn't be a problem, as someone who parties with stoner alcoholics it really isn't that big of a deal, unless your friends are a bunch of dickish noob-drinkers.

Boom.

[andromedene]

Woooooooooooooow

[The Nexerus]

ImANargleHunter said
I have to go to this party thing tonight and my mom is willing to buy me alcohol because it's BYOB but I don't know if I actually want to drink.

I told the host that I don't want to stay overnight which means I'll have to go home tipsy if I drink. I just find the idea embarrassing.

If you don't want to drink, don't bring anything to drink. The fact that it's BYOB makes this easier.

mbl said
Aren't you like 15? And your parents are offering to buy you alcohol for a drinking party that you are going to without them? Fucking Canada.

She's like 12.

[andromedene]

I don't have my license (I wouldn't drive drunk regardless, I'm not an idiot). I'm not fifteen. It isn't peer pressure because no one has told me to drink, I just have trouble being decisive. I have to go to the party. It's a ringette thing.

[andromedene]

The Nexerus said
If you don't want to drink, don't bring anything to drink. The fact that it's BYOB makes this easier.She's like 12.

Wow traitor

[The Nexerus]

ImANargleHunter said
Wow traitor

To my advice or my informing everyone of your real age?

[andromedene]

The Nexerus said
To my advice or my informing everyone of your real age?

My twelve year old heart is broken.

[mbl]

ImANargleHunter said
I'm not fifteen.

The Nexerus said
She's like 12.

Thanks for clearing things up

[andromedene]

I'm actually seven.

[Awson]

Have you ever drank before?

I think I remember you saying that you haven't.

If you aren't driving, there really isn't anything embarrassing about "leaving tipsy."

[andromedene]

Awson said
Have you ever drank before?I think I remember you saying that you haven't.If you aren't driving, there really isn't anything embarrassing about "leaving tipsy."

Awson.

Awson.

Look at me.
.......

I am supposed to be a role model.

[mbl]

Awson said
Have you ever drank before?I think I remember you saying that you haven't.If you aren't driving, there really isn't anything embarrassing about "leaving tipsy."

Riding home drunk with sober family can be embarrassing, but given that her parents are offering to buy her twelve year old ass alcohol, I don't think it should be that bad.

[andromedene]

I'M NOT TWELVE

[Awson]

mbl said
Riding home drunk with sober family can be embarrassing, but given that her parents are offering to buy her twelve year old ass alcohol, I don't think it should be that bad.

Stop being a doodle. She's like 16 or 17. And I know that she's responsible as balls. I don't think it's a big deal that she's open with her parents about it. Especially because I'm pretty sure this is one of, if not her only time doing this.

My advice? Keep your options open, and do exactly what you feel like doing. Bring a six pack, force one of those gross things down and decide from there. The first one isn't going to do much to you. Then you can have a second, fake a second, or just give them away.

As for the role model part. Go home, be like "ugh so tired and sick ugh so sick tho" and just lie down.