Well Dominate would be used mostly in manipulating NPC's (usually those I mention myself) and animals and explaining why they do as Solara wishes. In the case where she does attempt to manipulate another player's character I will undoubtedly pm said person and ask for their input on such. If they don't like the aspect or the action she wants them to perform, then I will simply work around it, explaining that it failed. I can respect that. Long as no one just flies in a rage and cussing then I don't see any problem coming out of it.
And having sex with Solara would probably be a no-go. For most, if not everyone, sex with Solara equals death. This is because during sex Solara links her mind with her mate's in a process called melding, but for an Ardat-Yakshi, she would completely and utterly dominate that of her mate's. This causes hemorrhaging in the brain, unable to handle the stress of domination, which means you can get off with a coma at best. Due to the fact that even if you heal naturally or extremely fast, as long as the excess blood exists in your head you'd have to worry about inter-cranial pressure. So in the case where one could get over the brain hemorrhaging through extreme healing, they have to have that blood drain from their head to lower the pressure.
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Hello Xzayler ^o^ I would love for Solara to run into everyone during the course of the rp!