I'm suddenly quite wary of an undercurrent of homophobia.
Allow me to clarify. We're willing to love all people, regardless of their lifestyle. A majority of our primary members do not believe that living that kind of life is a moral choice to make, and as a result would rather not be required to participate in something that would inevitably become a point of contention (especially given its significantly greater occurrence on sites like this than in our real world, given that people understandably want to be able to see life from a different perspective). So just as we respect other groups that allow it, we ask that you respect us in our choice, and if that means that our group isn't right for you, we completely understand. We're all people behind the screen, after all, and people have such differing tastes.