Hidden 11 yrs ago Post by Shy
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Jorick said
Intelligence is what is attractive to me above all else when it comes to personality stuff. She doesn't need to be highly educated, she doesn't need to be a genius, but it's a major boner-killer if I feel like I can't talk to her about various scientific or philosophical subjects as an equal at the very least; feeling that she's my intellectual superior is actually pretty fucking hot, but that rarely happens, sadly.Then the next tier of importance contains things like not being super emotional, not being clingy or whiny, not being a pushover, having a sense of humor that plays well with mine, and being honest about important things.


Basically this. She also has to be cool with my religion and video games. Maybe I can give up SOME of the video games but I'm not quitting cold turkey (my last girlfriend just learned to play them with me, it was awesome).
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The type of personality I'm attracted to is someone who is funny, whether it be witty, goofy or dry, as long as they do not take themselves or life so seriously. Intelligence is important, someone with good common sense, who is thoughtful and empathetic. A person who is comfortable with who they are, self aware, and confident. Be passionate about something, be it a hobby or a job. Someone who has goals in life, even if they are small, and that they work towards them. Being kind, defending those that are weaker, and being tough when the situation calls for it is very attractive. I could probably write more but those are what I could think of off the top of my head.
E: Oh, and don't try to change me. Love me for who I am and I'll do the same.
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*Intelligent
*Passionate
*Humourous/Funny in one form or another
*Deep (in the sense that there's more to her than meets the eye)
*Confident/Self Loving

Those are the biggest traits which would attract me to someone.
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Ah, so we're taking this thread seriously now? Very well.

Like so many people here, I'm a sucker for intelligence... but it's a prerequisite, not something that I'm specifically attracted to. Anyone significantly dumber than I am -- that's just not going to work. I find women who are a lot more intelligent than I am intimidating. I'm comfortable with my own mental acuity but I'm well aware there are people a lot sharper than me out there and it scares me. Go away.

What I really like are women capable of great compassion and empathy. Humor is important, of course, and not taking yourself too seriously is great, but nothing endears me to a person more than making up for my own emotional shortcomings.
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