Jorick said
Intelligence is what is attractive to me above all else when it comes to personality stuff. She doesn't need to be highly educated, she doesn't need to be a genius, but it's a major boner-killer if I feel like I can't talk to her about various scientific or philosophical subjects as an equal at the very least; feeling that she's my intellectual superior is actually pretty fucking hot, but that rarely happens, sadly.Then the next tier of importance contains things like not being super emotional, not being clingy or whiny, not being a pushover, having a sense of humor that plays well with mine, and being honest about important things.
Basically this. She also has to be cool with my religion and video games. Maybe I can give up SOME of the video games but I'm not quitting cold turkey (my last girlfriend just learned to play them with me, it was awesome).