I was a little out of it, honestly. I was feeling terrible when we went out the eat and the noise and lights only made it worse. I was already crying from the headache when he started raising his voice about how I should have just stayed at the hotel. I had wanted so bad to go out to eat with my family and have a nice dinner, and when he said that I just lost it. I couldn't think of anything to say, crying was making the headache worse, so I just up and left. I think I was in a fight or flight mode.
I find in most sibling spats, both parties are just a little in the wrong. :-/ Heaven knows I usually am when I get into a fight.
Not yet :( I am wating for my husbands insurance to kick in. I might still be covered under my parents, but my last name is now wrong on the insurance card :(