I was saying I can cast the ability that gives me traits of someone undead undead 6 times.
I edited my post because ya I forgot there is now a set command list.
With the approach command even if they are not flat footed it says they may take no other action so no warning anyone. Plus I will still have 2 chances to grapple them down before they can warn anyone since as they walk in they provoke an attack.
I am not too afraid of provoking a will save since most will saves are low while with a normal attack like a shank I have to overcome armor AC
My dex is 12 and I assume guards will have like scale mail.