Whether you decided to listen to it and improve or ignore it and regress inwards is up to you.
Apparently it's possible to improve upon the way I create characters by listening to people call me a fucking retard for making a black character. There's a word for it, actually, it's called being a push over, and letting other people walk all over you. I
COULD stop people harassing me by completely changing her appearance or ripping out entire segments of her back-story (i.e. all the things that people I RP with LIKE about the character). But that wouldn't be a real improvement, now, would it? Of course, judging by the way you have spoken to me thus far, you would probably believe that it would be. Because creative freedom takes a MAJOR back seat to conforming to other people's (Even people you don't RP with) draconian standards in the RP community. Quite frankly, though, it's none of your business. Sure, go ahead, look down on me because I don't want to listen to your quote-end-quote "Judgement", I don't give a shit.
*SIGH* This is the reason why I keep to myself 99% of the time.