So I've been having some issues trying to talk with an old friend of mine. Like we used to be very close and now it's like they're a stranger to me. Is this the point in life where I cut it off from them or should I leave the friendship open?

@CrotchNinja

Shiiit, the thing about bros is that. They're so vague defined relationships that you never know their status. Because the nature of friends can some fucker who you say hi to once a day or the best bugger in your life who likes all the shit you do.

This shit is why homestuck terms take off, because our labels are more vague than a drunk transvestite trying to score.

Shiit, dog. Excuse the nerd out there. I motherfucking think, you should lay it low a bit. You know, let time dwell a bit but think about what you two got together a bout. Like, if it was shitty jokes or watching anime, exactly what behind them if he dosen't like them anymore. And like, set up a thing to try and chill about it again.

All motherfucking, relationships need a little twist. People desire safety but they hate it too. You know, when me and my TOB were getting a bit bored we started doing voice reading together for the lulz.

and the most important bit is to never be afraid to be fucking, morons ith each other. That's like...the glue of friendship fun.

It depends because I don't know how long you two have been friends or if something happened between you guys that you're not mentioning but it could either be that they want space or it's time for you to move onto new friends.

@X23

We've been friends for about 5 years and had kind of like an open relationship, just flirt and flattery. It ended when she told me she wanted to be with someone and from there just stopped talking to me. I didn't mind her wanting to have an actual relationship so tried my best to talk to her, keep up to date with how she was doing seeing we are friends. But I always seemed to be ignored.

I do understand people get busy but at least people do try and keep in contact with people they are close too. With her it seems she only talks to me when it benefits her.

With her it seems she only talks to me when it benefits her.

Honestly, it seems like the spark is gone so it's definitely time to move on with someone new who will be as interested and attentive to you as you should also be with them.

In the end, it's your call but it does seem to me that she's also ready to move on but doesn't want to say it aloud because you give her all that she needs; it's all readily available for her so why would she want to leave that.