@Akayaofthemoon I really wish I could say something that would be of any use but I can't. I've never been in anything remotely like your situation and can't imagine how it must feel, so I won't attempt to comment on that. My lack of experience might make me useless at giving you any meaningful advice, but what it can't express at least my appreciation of you as a person can. Akaya, you're an amazing friend and I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I know it isn't much compared to the painful situation you're in, but I support you and think as much of you as a friend who only knows you via the internet possibly can. Thank you for being here for us and being strong enough to keep us updated even through this awful experience.

@AkayaofthemoonWell. . . shit.

I have nothing to say, as Spinna already covered everything really. I have a few things I know I want to say/do, but it'd likely be inappropriate to voice these thoughts. I've never had a girlfriend, much less know how a marriage works, but I do know you(or at least I'd like to thing I do) and I know that you're a string person. It must hurt, life must suck, but I believe that you can get through this and, in the end, will be stronger for it. I hope my words don't upset or offend you.

Sincerely,
Your California Buddy
Raijin

@AkayaofthemoonI...

I can't do anything else than say that I'm sorry that it happened, and nothing makes me more furious right now. I'm sorry. I'm sorry that this ever had to happen in the first place, and I'm sorry that all I can do is push buttons on a keyboard. I'm sorry I can't to anything else to help you, and I'm sorry that I haven't been in a similar position to help you or really understand what you're going through. But I do want you to know something.

We're here for you. Just like we've all been here for each other in the past year and some change, we are all here for you now, and nothing is going to go and change that. Take the time that you need, your life, everything going on right now, is more important than the Guild. We're always here for you, and we'll always welcome you back with open arms. You all have been like family to me, and I want you to know that I want for us to be a family for you in this dire time.

I want to do everything I can to help, but I don't want to impose or overstep my boundaries.

We're always here for you Akaya.

-Pyro

Thank you, all of you. I think of you all as my family and I didn't want to worry you all when a decision from him hadn't been made. I haven't even told my family other than my parents. I care about you all and I didn't want to drag you all down. I'm truly grateful that I have you all in my life. You are all so amazing and I'm so blessed that you are here. I am not sure I deserve it but I love you guys. If you all lived here, I would try to see you all everyday.

@AkayaofthemoonGlad U could help put a bit of a light in your day. As pyro and Spinna have said, we're with you. Man, I wish I had a car and no classes, along with infinite money. Take everyone on a road trip to,I don't know, Spain? Yeah, I'd break physics and drive us all to Spain to have an awesome time.

@Raijinslayer

That would be nice. Plus defying physics would show them all! Honestly, wished you lived in North Cali Raijin, at least so I had one of you here. Though maybe it is a good thing since I would probably just cry and hug you like a teddy bear which would be embarrassing for me and probably hard to watch.

@AkayaofthemoonI'm a 6'4 and my sign is Libra, I am the person for people to hug and cry on. Comforting people is one of the things I like to think I'm good at by just being an ear to listen. I'm great at that.

@Raijinslayer

I'm a 5'3 Virgo. I hate worrying people and I don't like people seeing me cry. I'm usually the strong one, the one everyone goes too and suffer in silence. This one hurts a little too much to hold it. It embarrasses me that I can't stop crying and everyone keeps telling me to let it out. I am but my crying makes them cry or get upset. I hate seeing the hurt they have because I am hurting. I feel like glass....

@Akayaofthemoon My dad talks about how he'd like to take me to NorCal someday all the time, so maybe it could happen? I'd totally overcome my fear of physical contact and hug you if you wanted me to, and probably offer you a cup of some great tea.

@Raijinslayer I've always wanted to see Barcelona, but maybe we could operate within the laws of physics and I could take you guys to the frozen tundra which I call home, aka the Midwest. Maybe not my hometown, but Chicago and Minneapolis need to be seen at least once.

@Spinna

That sounds completely wonderful Spinna. Maybe tea would help since I can't seem to keep anything else down.

@Akayaofthemoon I'd use the best leaves I could get ahold of! I don't know what that would be but I'm sure I could find out! Oh, and maybe I could bring over my computer and we could watch Amelie on Netflix, that movie really helped me when I was feeling down.

@AkayaofthemoonI'd love to join the get-together, but I'm a little bit of a ways away, and besides talking, there's not much I can really provide. I guess I can come up with stories and such, but everyone on here can already do that. I can't drive, I don't have any experience with anything... I guess it falls to me to be the comedic relief then!

@Spinna

I'll have to check it out. I've been watching Netflix all morning pretty much. Now I have to deal with the hard stuff like completely splitting my accounts from his. We have them all little separate right now but I need to do it all that way.

((Ignore this. It was not appropriate for the situation and I did not know that yet.))

@pyroman

It is just enough knowing you are here. It is enough that you care and I know that you do. You do everything pyro, really. This, talking and being with me the best why you can is enough.

@Akayaofthemoon
Welp, that...I wasn't expecting bad news.

I don't know what to say other than what already has been, especially since I can't draw from any experience of my own as the biggest freakin' aro ever. If I were 18 and had money I'd be up for the get together. I'm sorry I haven't been around. I'm sorry that message must've seemed so dickish, Pyro told me there was news but I didn't think it'd be bad.

I'm really sorry about this though, it sounds like a nightmare. I might not be able to draw any empathy for romantic situations, but definitely two faced ones, and although I'm sure he didn't mean harm, it wasn't right of him to hide that and I'm sorry this happened.

Sorry.

I've really been gone for a long time, I was scared to come back. But even though I haven't been the best group member, I'm sticking around at least OOC for you, if you'll allow me around.

@Akayaofthemoon That sounds painful, maybe you should have a friend help you do it? If you have one you trust enough, that is.

@Loonynicetohave ya back, Loon!

Edit: And don't worry, You always have a spot in this group.

@Loony

Oh Little Loon, you are always welcome. We have saved a spot for you and everything. You never have to be scared about not having a place here. There is nothing you could do to lose the spot you have with all of us. It makes me so glad that you took the time to come back. To be here for me.

@Spinna

My mom is coming with me. It hurts and I don't like it but this has to be done.