*POSITIVE* LGBT++ hangout, anybody? *CIS/STRAIGHT WELCOME TOO* :D

[Sputnik]

Kotor 2 was my first take on any star wars media, tHen followed by the first kotor game and the movies and honestly, got serious;y bored not even half way on the first game. The first game, it's the generic black and white choices, the Jedi being the obvious good guys and the Sith being the big bad meanies of the galaxy. The plot is pretty bland but sure it got some nice elements, not really a terrible game but I wasnt as invested in it as I was with the sequel. I'm a whore for deep character development and Kotor 2 scratched that itch for me. I love their approach on the exiles development, spesh that first conversation with Atris w/c let you see the exile's perspective, their take on morality, why they joined Revan and their own reason for doing so. And Kreia's relationship with the Exile (even though she hates everything that I do but I still love her tho) and during the confrontation with the Jedi masters just made me love Kreia's character even more. Obsidian has great writers, Neverwinter Nights 2 and Pillars of Eternity is as equally satisfying games to me and I'm just sitting here lusting over Chris Avellone's sexy brain.

Oh and in relation to the thread, I am as twink as they come, sugar. -3-

[Rica]

Did someone say Obsidian because aside from KOTOR II I have a great weakness for New Vegas. I love it so much~

New Vegas is what truly made me fall in love with Obsidian honestly. Even if it was shoved out to release early much like KOTOR II was

[Dolerman]

I consider myself straight.

But someone on this guild made me reconsider.

I went from being Heterosexual to Heteroflexible

who wants to hear the story?

*sits at the campfire*

[Rica]

I'll join in on story time~ Do tell my friend

[RosebeltAngel]

Hey guys! It's nice that everyone can get together and chat here with no worries. I am bisexual myself. I am currently married to my husband, and it's funny because people always ask, "What does that mean for your guys' relationship?" I'm always like, "...what do you mean? We are married. I am dedicated to him. I can still appreciate a woman, but love and stay with my husband." It's nice because he is also bisexual, so he is every understanding of me. My family was always confused about it, and even though I told them I was bisexual in my teens (even though I knew in Elementary School), they still think it's a phase. (I'm 26 now. xD)

Some people assume that all bisexual people are all about having sex with everyone! I just laugh. :)

[Fubsy]

@RosebeltAngel
Hey, friend! ;D I'm bi as well. It's so sweet that you and your husband understand eachother.

[RosebeltAngel]

Hi there! And thank you! :) I always find it amusing when we both see an attractive person and are like, 'Woooo~!' Then look at each other, laugh, then hold hands and continue on our way.

@Fubsy

[LuckyBlackCat]

Hi, @RosebeltAngel! Yeah, that assumption makes me laugh too. Though what I get most often is people assuming somebody is either gay or straight, so I have family members who seem to think I'm exclusively gay (even though I've told them I'm bi, and have dated men) just because I'm in a relationship with a woman. Luckily, most of my friends are pretty open-minded and understanding.

[Rica]

@RosebeltAngel Oh man before I figured out where my sexuality lied (mostly women but open to all) I heard that crap allllll the time.

Like no dude. I am bisexual (at the time that's what I identified as) and I still like women even though I'm dating a man that doesn't suddenly change.

[Fabricant451]

My parents still think my sexuality is a phase. Even when the priest was like "You may now kiss the bride" my mom was sitting there like "She'll grow out of it." Though considering my cousin is transitioning now she's more like "How could you corrupt your cousin like that" rather than "So when're you getting a husband?"

Parents just don't understand, but you're cool peeps you lovely bisexual people you.

[Rica]

My mom was a little like that. In high school she was all for me dating my male best friend but when my female best friend asked me out a year or so later she said she didn't think I was ready?

She's better now, in that she doesn't question my decisions outside normal mom stuff. But that stuck with me.

She meant well I guess???? And she's supportive now.

[Dolerman]

I wish I had some cool origin story for my sexual awakening like you guys but I'll tell my story anyway. (with pictures)

I've always been very hetero, I like girls with long hair and wavy dresses, and cute voices. I've always been a natural leader so Ive always preferred being in control. So even if I met a strong girl I'd always still be the decision maker. This same attitude extended beyond just romance but in all corners of life. I also always knew I was polyamorus, so while I'd be happy with one girl, I ideally would be trying to date as many as possible at once (with all of them knowing)


Then I literally just discovered traps of the anime kind, and I was hit instantly with fascination, the idea that there were feminine guys out there who could look very attractive wearing dresses/tunics/nightgowns with soft features and long hair. The idea of dating them made me feel 'even more like a man' because it takes a real man to dominate another man (I realise how messed up that sounds but its the only way to make sense of it.) But It was still a struggle, cause In my head I dont see myself as 'Gay' or even Bi I like girls, but I wasn't able to get these new Traps out of my head.

The torment.....

Now for the most part I just tried to stop thinking about it, I told myself it was just curiosity and not real sexual attraction and went back to girls. But then ON THIS VERY SITE I made the silly mistake of falling for an RP character that someone who wont be mentioned made (weve all done it). I assumed this person was girl because of how well the female character was portrayed, only to find out it was a guy who just played girls very well. And that's when the attraction was concrete. I was attracted to that 'performance' It was attractive because it was impressive.



So now I still consider myself straight because of my attraction to everything feminine, but with the knowledge that amazing femininity can come from a lot of different places. So I started adopting the term Heteroflexible.

THE END

[Fabricant451]

D'awww, that's kind of adorable, Dynamo.

I've definitely got my whole 'type' which I can best describe as "You ever see the music video for the song 'Lazy Eye' by Silversun Pickups? That girl. Her. All of her." which is a bit wordy a way of saying that I'm way into the short haired kind of androgynous look. Does that count as 'trap' I dunno.

[ClocktowerEchos]

-snippy-

@Dynamo Frokane

*whistles innocently *

[Dolerman]

@Fabricant451 maybe a reverse trap like that one from persona

Hnggg

[Dolerman]

<Snipped quote by Dynamo Frokane>

*whistles innocently *

@ClocktowerEchos

Quiet you, all this is your fault!

[Fabricant451]

@Dynamo Frokane Naoto is for chumps. The real Persona waifu has always been

Lisa Silverman

She was Chie before Chie respect your elders Chie losers.

_{rise is best persona 4 waifu tho. naoto is 2}

[ClocktowerEchos]

@Dynamo Frokaneso much for no mentioning who did it then xD

[Hans von Lek]

yeah.

[Rica]

@Dynamo Frokane Oddly enough the reason I'm so very very gay is kind of the same thing

I'm really attracted to stereotypically 'feminine' traits (softer faces and skin for example) and unattracted to stereotypically 'masculine' traits (lots of hair, especially facial hair, for example).

So I'm actually willing to be with a man but they would likely have to be rather 'feminine'.

But I'm also highly attracted to androgyny as well so it's very hard to explain all this because there seems to be little theme that fits one 'label'.

I really like girls but I also really like people in general??????

(someone send help)