Apparently people only notice me when I have a hissy fit
Maybe because you pop in randomly at the strangest times asking if you're needed but when people are actually actively asking you for a ruling or anything you either put it off with a vague answer, don't respond or defer it to the Co-GMs. If you want to just generally be involved have conversations with people, chime in on whatever the group is discussing, you don't have to be the GM all of the time.
I am female! If I was male I'd be my brother and screw that!
I know, I was messing with you cause the half a page of SHE seemed like a bit much.