Typically when I run characters, I treat npc enemies as legitimate threats that, if given the chance, will kill and/or wound my character if said character messes up.
I hold other RPers to the same standard, which is why for this roleplay I really only trust Kyelin and two other people for pvp battles. Rest of you have a habit of power playing or using dumb tactics and expecting them to work flawlessly. Wilson and Duck are two prime examples; Keyguy forced my left eyebrow to elevate several inches from its starting position when he had a fighter ram through a ship's bridge (at high speeds) and somehow had his character survive the impact and live on through a firefight on the bridge. While outnumbered.
Duck having mages out in the open exposed to entrenched autocannon and HMG fire and somehow having them not only survive barrages of bullets and shells, but also having them throw turrets around hitting soldiers with them was another eye-opener and a red flag.