@Isabel LaSainte, I really enjoy your quote about anger, especially since so many (myself included) whoβve been brought up with the idea to feel shame towards having anger.
βOh, woe, woe, woe! If only the fortieth day would come sooner: to hear the tearful voices above me, the wailing of my spouse and the quiet weeping of my children!...β
βWell, look what he's weeping about: they'll stuff their faces with kutya and leave. Ah, if only someone would wake up!β