Rica

Official Guild Crush and Gush Thread

@Slypheed SHHHHHHH no one's supposed to know i mean what me? naaahhhh

Official Guild Crush and Gush Thread

But doesnt this come across even MORE creepy? :(

@Dynamo Frokane

Speaking from experience as long as you learn to understand the 'soft no' which many women use because we've been (rather unfortunately) conditioned to play nice with men's feelings you'll be fine.

Us ladies don't tend to just say no outright (because of above), so it's nice when men understand our attempts to 'let someone down gently' is actually a no and not an invitation to try harder.

Ignoring the 'soft no' is what makes men creepy.

@Cynder Thank you~ I seem to be following you around the guild :P I promise it's not intentional and I'm not some weird internet stalker

Official Guild Crush and Gush Thread

Ehhh I'll bite.

My best relationship was long term, and despite how absolutely homosexual I am, it was surprisingly with a man.

He pretended to be a girl online (for his own personal reasons) and I was one of the only people who knew otherwise and that was because we were dating.

He was lovely. More 'soft' and perhaps effeminate than I am. (though I hate gendering personality traits) Which is part of why I was so attracted to him.

Honestly he was such a sweet and kind hearted dude. Very affectionate and loving, almost too much so.

Eventually what broke us up was a simple understanding of mine, coming to the realization I needed more intimacy than he could reasonably provide. Especially given his inability to understand why I might want to be desired as a woman rather than just seen as 'cute'.

Harvest Moon: BellView Village

June beamed and clapped her hands together, looking around over the pieces. "There is a bed frame. Right here." She walked over to it, she kneeled and lifted the bed frame up, carefully moving it so it was standing up so the priestess didn't have to kneel down either. "The carvings were done with influence from the forest outside of town. My sister Bethany insisted we go have a picnic one day."

She offered a small smile, somewhat sheepish. "Anyway I loved all the life out there...so I carved the trees and wildlife into the frame, look." June showed her the designs of the trees and the rabbits. The deer and the birds. They were very well done. Professional and clean. The designs took her a week. She was proud of her work, that much was clear.

@sakurasan

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Bethany beamed at her, "Yes please. I'm new in town and I haven't had much of a chance to really explore. My sister insists on hiding away in her workshop most the time." She shrugged, she had plenty of time to make June more social.

"I'm Bethany. June's little sister." Knowing people at least somewhat knew who June was if only through the jobs she did.

@shi12

*POSITIVE* LGBT++ hangout, anybody? *CIS/STRAIGHT WELCOME TOO* :D

@Cynder That's unfortunate :( At least you won't get that here!

@LuckyBlackCat My dad doesn't quite get it either. He goes by the 'I don't care and it doesn't matter' so he's supportive in the sense it's not a big deal but he doesn't understand and so sometimes criticize people because he doesn't understand you have to make your queerness a personality trait practically just to find other queer people.

Being silent means being alone.

*POSITIVE* LGBT++ hangout, anybody? *CIS/STRAIGHT WELCOME TOO* :D

@LuckyBlackCat There's a lot of misunderstandings about sexualities outside of Gay/Lesbian/Straight and a lot of assumptions being made. It's horrible and while I identify as demisexual with high homosexual leanings now (or, when I don't feel like explaining what demisexual actually means, "queer") I dealt with a lot of the biphobia nonsense in high school.

Had a "best friend" who was one of those stereotypical "Nice Guys" because he wanted to fuck me who put down my sexuality a lot and tried to pull the 'if you're dating a guy you're straight now' nonsense when I was with my ex-boyfriend.

Still I'm happy for your friend :) I'm glad she's found someone who accepts her for who she is and understands that bisexual isn't 'half-gay' and that it's it's own sexuality.

*POSITIVE* LGBT++ hangout, anybody? *CIS/STRAIGHT WELCOME TOO* :D

They are quite nasty towards the Asexual crowd.

@Slypheed

Bingo! Anything other than gay, lesbian, or straight is mentioned you go through three stages of bullshit.

First it's people convinced it doesn't exist. (Could be any label. Asexual, bisexual, demisexual, etc.)

Then it's people knowing it exists but detests the group.

Then it's the people who mean well but 'would never date a 'x' because -insert really awful reason here usually about them being tainted by he opposite sex or them being broken somehow-'

*POSITIVE* LGBT++ hangout, anybody? *CIS/STRAIGHT WELCOME TOO* :D

Well I think within the LGBT community a man crushing on another man is probably very accepted, but I don't consider myself LGBT, I see myself as very hetero. I think the straight community need to be more open minded to these phenomena, especially with something as intentionally confusing a RolePlay, where I'm literally placing myself in fantasy every time I post or read a post.

@Dynamo Frokane

Eh I wouldn't be so sure given the bad reactions to bisexual people and the 'gold star lesbian' nonsense. (Basically you're a 'better lesbian' if you've never slept with a man which is awful and shaming people's experiences in life)

Even the LGBT community can be nasty about stupid things. Really nasty.

*POSITIVE* LGBT++ hangout, anybody? *CIS/STRAIGHT WELCOME TOO* :D

@Cynder My form isn't actually white it's flannel :P

*POSITIVE* LGBT++ hangout, anybody? *CIS/STRAIGHT WELCOME TOO* :D

Here we see raw footage of Rica in her natural environment.

@Cynder

I am the scariest of ghosties! FEAR ME