In Highschool my social anxiety was so bad(and still is) that I would skip class periods where I had to do a presentation of any kind. And then I would skip the make-up days for the periods I skipped.
In Highschool my social anxiety was so bad(and still is) that I would skip class periods where I had to do a presentation of any kind. And then I would skip the make-up days for the periods I skipped.
My son is playing football this year. This would be his first year and undoubtedly is only year. One day, he is up and loving football, the next he doesn't want to go to practice and hates it. The average height of the 6th grade 11 or 12 year old players is about 5' 2" or 5'3" and weigh about 120 Lbs. My son is 4' 10" and weighs 90 Lbs. Yes, he is one of the smallest on the team. He is one of the fastest runners on the team and the first week of practice he never dropped a ball thrown to him. Naturally, the coaches agreed to make him an offensive lineman because he is so bleeding large. /smh
As a result his frustration is difficult to contend with at times. With eight adult coaches, their eight sons get to play all the important roles on a football team.
I am a creature of routine and ritual where everything must be consistent and follow a pattern. The lifestyle of haphazard, sudden, and spontaneous choices is not one I can live and it mentally taxes my psyche. There are things that can and must be done, whereas others can be rearranged. When things become out of order I am alarmed and typically am the only one to notice something out of place. I trade versatility for mastery in the process of this.