Not 100% how I feel about the chair incident (which got posted while I wrote my post), under the circumstances I think I still wouldn't have been hit with it no questions asked, grabbed arms leave quite a bit of wriggle room. I'll leave my post as is for now, if others think it would have played out like that then I'll factor it into my next post, a small delay shouldn't hurt that much considering the vagueness as to the time he did it.