[OOC] Mid/High Casual - Divinus: The Deity Roleplay Mk.II

[Kho]

@Muttonhawk Of course he was hiding his feelings xDDD how can one with so expansive a breast have so expansive a breast and not a jot of emoti-

*gets roflstomped by an Unidentified Ant-Like Object (UA-LO)*

But part of me was also being Herman Melville-verbose, 'cause I've been reading Moby Dick for the last few years. It's a whale of a ta- Actually, better not.

[Frettzo]

Congrats on stealing the 10k, @Muttonhawk :(

Anyway, I drew the babby stage of my upcoming race :)

babbys

don't ask why a nut has the cutest eyes ever

[Double Capybara]

@Frettzo Tell me about the nut, why does it have the cute eyes?

[Muttonhawk]

babbys

don't ask why a nut has the cutest eyes ever

@Frettzo

Vestec: Look Astarte! A pokemon!
Astarte: It's not a pokemon, it's a cute nut.
Vestec: I'm gonna catch it.

[Lauder]

My plight:

*goes to write down an idea, gets distracted by memes and forgets the idea. Punches wall out of frustration*

[Rtron]

Congrats on stealing the 10k, @Muttonhawk :(

Anyway, I drew the babby stage of my upcoming race :)

babbys

don't ask why a nut has the cutest eyes ever

@Frettzo

*Perks up*

Those look familiar.

Making plant people again?

Shall I get Vestec's armies ready to drive them into the desert again? =D

[Rtron]

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Vestec: Look Astarte! A pokemon!
Astarte: It's not a pokemon, it's a cute nut.
Vestec: I'm gonna catch it.

@Muttonhawk

Is that a...is that a Dragon Ball Z Abridged reference?

[Frettzo]

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*Perks up*

Those look familiar.

Making plant people again?

Shall I get Vestec's armies ready to drive them into the desert again? =D

@Rtron

:(

[Rtron]

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:(

@Frettzo

THAT'S A YES IF I EVER HEARD ONE.

[The Irish Tree]

@The Irish Tree Finally! Someone who knows Vowzra for the loving, romantic, warm-hearted dad he always was. You stand up for your daddy boy, don't let them evil ones tell you who he truly was!

You see guys, Vowzra was a real Brit, even his most private thoughts showed nothing more than the stiffest of upper lips xD

@Kho

Papa Vowzra always cared. People are just jealous that a tree was a better parent than most. And over the course of like, a week.

[Dawnscroll]

Question; and I am genuinely not trying to bring RL drama into this thread so do forgive me.

Has anyone here ever had any previous experience with an unfaithful girlfriend, spouse or significant other? I could use some sort of comraderie with someone who has been there done that.

[Lauder]

@Rtron

So is Galbar infested with Chaos yet, giant armies still roaming around?

[lif]

@Dawnscroll

Dump her, if she does it this time, she'll do it again. Just cut the bad stuff out of your life, and you'll be happy.

[Kho]

@Dawnscroll That's a damn difficult situation to be in. The important thing is that you don't let it shake your confidence and self-esteem. You are a beautiful person, s/he is the one with issues.

My general solution for all relationship problems (and I've never seen anything more effective than it) is just not to get into one. Been there, seen that can of worms, don't f*cking need it.
Of course, if you're not a radical like me, then don't let it shake your confidence in yourself and your faith in people in general. Some humans, as we have learned from Divinus, are pricks. But that isn't the case with them all, I'm sure someone will enter your life one day and you'll realise that they're the reason it could never have worked out with anyone else.

[Muttonhawk]

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Is that a...is that a Dragon Ball Z Abridged reference?

@Rtron

Maaaaybe.

Question; and I am genuinely not trying to bring RL drama into this thread so do forgive me.

Has anyone here ever had any previous experience with an unfaithful girlfriend, spouse or significant other? I could use some sort of comraderie with someone who has been there done that.

@Dawnscroll

Some of us might have been through something similar.

What's the situation? Are you two still together or have you separated due to an incident?

Let us know if you'd rather not have internet relationship counselling. I'm just curious.

[Double Capybara]

@Antarctic Termite

Since its a habit to link you any good art of eldritch creatures we find on the net.

My Hider

[Frettzo]

Question; and I am genuinely not trying to bring RL drama into this thread so do forgive me.

Has anyone here ever had any previous experience with an unfaithful girlfriend, spouse or significant other? I could use some sort of comraderie with someone who has been there done that.

@Dawnscroll

I'm sorry that such an awful thing's happened to you. I don't know what I'd do in such a situation, man. I know I'd freak out and probably try to beat up the dude who trespassed into my relationship, but that'd probably land me in jail.

I'm not one to give good advice, so maybe keep it simple and straight forward? Sit down, take a deep breath and ask yourself who you are and what you stand for. If you find it in your heart to forgive your partner, then do so. There really is no wrong answer here. Neither is there a right one.

Edit: if all else fails and you begin to panic, do the thing you feel you'll regret less in the long run.

[Dawnscroll]

Right. Forgive me if im too surgical with this. I'm literally channeling Logos right now.

GF. Almost a year relationship. Rather happy. She takes anxiety medication and sees a therapist. Don't stick your dick in crazy, am I right? Still, she made me feel desired which wasn't bad. I, as some of you have become aware, am sorta set when it comes to my career now. Parents raised me and my siblings with class due to the community we were raised in. Her parents also did, but she fell into the wrong crowd hard when she was younger. Drugs and theblike. Right now shes heavy smoker. Heavy drinker. I figure it's mostly stress, and I can coax her into the 'good' side. Her parents good upstanding members of the community. Her brother is in a full scholarship to a pretty decent school.

We make "progress". I figure nobody is perfect and maybe she just needed the right guy in her life since all of her past boyfriends were literal utter shits.

Look, I'm going to be honest. I come from a good family, I'm educated, I'm more of a wine and discuss the latest yatch race than a Natty Ice and watch the football game. I basically have my act together, know what I'm doing and did what I had too in order to do it. Pretty good BF material right? Her family thinks so. Parents love me, Grandparents love me even more. I'm apparently the first guy they've ever approved.

So, the other day I notice that her Facebook profile has changed. There some guy in it with her. This is highly unusual; she's never had a profile picture with anyone; not family, not friends, not even me. And we have ALOT of great pics together.

So I basically call her on it, who is this guy? Well "he's just a friend from when she was younger, and they were just having a great time when she stayed over his house last night".

Record screech to a stop. Um, what?

Sketchy ass mother [Vestec rules, Logos drools]. Gauges in the ears. Doesn't shave cleanly. Tattoos. His profile pic has him in a wife beater infront of a Confederate Flag. Not the guy I'd trust with me sister.

So now I'm more direct; is she romantically interested in this guy? She answers yes. I simply inform her she has a choice to make, but to at least have the courtesy of breaking up with me first before climbing into someone else's bed. But I assure her that if she continues to be unfaithful, I'll make sure her entire family and friends know about it.

So ten minutes before I made that first post, she changed her relationship status too being with this new guy. So that's all that then. GG folks. Yay to bachelorhood.

[Scarifar]

Right. Forgive me if im too surgical with this. I'm literally channeling Logos right now.

GF. Almost a year relationship. Rather happy. She takes anxiety medication and sees a therapist. Don't stick your dick in crazy, am I right? Still, she made me feel desired which wasn't bad. I, as some of you have become aware, am sorta set when it comes to my career now. Parents raised me and my siblings with class due to the community we were raised in. Her parents also did, but she fell into the wrong crowd hard when she was younger. Drugs and theblike. Right now shes heavy smoker. Heavy drinker. I figure it's mostly stress, and I can coax her into the 'good' side. Her parents good upstanding members of the community. Her brother is in a full scholarship to a pretty decent school.

We make "progress". I figure nobody is perfect and maybe she just needed the right guy in her life since all of her past boyfriends were literal utter shits.

Look, I'm going to be honest. I come from a good family, I'm educated, I'm more of a wine and discuss the latest yatch race than a Natty Ice and watch the football game. I basically have my act together, know what I'm doing and did what I had too in order to do it. Pretty good BF material right? Her family thinks so. Parents love me, Grandparents love me even more. I'm apparently the first guy they've ever approved.

So, the other day I notice that her Facebook profile has changed. There some guy in it with her. This is highly unusual; she's never had a profile picture with anyone; not family, not friends, not even me. And we have ALOT of great pics together.

So I basically call her on it, who is this guy? Well "he's just a friend from when she was younger, and they were just having a great time when she stayed over his house last night".

Record screech to a stop. Um, what?

Sketchy ass mother [Vestec rules, Logos drools]. Gauges in the ears. Doesn't shave cleanly. Tattoos. His profile pic has him in a wife beater infront of a Confederate Flag. Not the guy I'd trust with me sister.

So now I'm more direct; is she romantically interested in this guy? She answers yes. I simply inform her she has a choice to make, but to at least have the courtesy of breaking up with me first before climbing into someone else's bed. But I assure her that if she continues to be unfaithful, I'll make sure her entire family and friends know about it.

So ten minutes before I made that first post, she changed her relationship status too being with this new guy. So that's all that then. GG folks. Yay to bachelorhood.

@Dawnscroll

I'm no expert on relationships (never even been in one, mind you), but I think you did as much as you could.

[Muttonhawk]

@Dawnscroll. That's a real unlucky hand you've been dealt. I feel for you.

The good thing is that you've made your boundaries fairly clear. Whatever happens, just stick to them and don't be compromised or negotiated out of them. If you end up being worried about her, know that she has to be the one to change her behaviour if she wants to get herself out of her situation. You (and probably any therapist she's been seeing) have done everything that you need to from your end.

It sucks for a while, but the pain passes much faster than if you tried to chase after her. Take care of yourself.