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I will when I need to, but I will also let you guys know, moving forward.
I haven't read the IC yet, but I'd like to clarify a bit about Father Ilya to everyone. He's really not an asshole, just dismissive half the time. If you've got an idea, he'll listen. If you've got a deal, he'll consider it. If you want to discuss something with him, he'll at least give you his position on the matter. Y'all seem to think he hates everyone and shuns people, but that's not true. He just doesn't want to deal with small talk or doing favors for people who could never repay him. (As Inquisitors, every single one of you could possibly repay him some day.)
Also, his racism isn't nearly as overt as people seem to think. It's lightened up a lot over time, but from the beginning it was being judgemental, not hateful.
Other than that, I've had 0 objections to people's character relationships.
I figured he wasn't actually racist, but Viveca might not realize she is either. She's jealous, for sure. Not be all SJW, but he has a privilege and a luxury she can't even fathom. Plus, Mother Indira strongly disliked him at first, and Viveca likely has not yet let that go.