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I'll refrain on adding onto the reason why I think you do get a reply and others don't and simply state I'm glad it has worked for you. From reading through the thread, you seem to be one of the few. Consider yourself lucky.


Okay.

I've definitely been around for a long time and have been since pre guildfall. I only knew moderators back then as people that did actually do stuff. Regardless of who they were, I was too busy RPing and trying to improve myself as a roleplayer to take note of who they were. Nor did I ever concern myself with it because I wasn't interested in the community, I just wanted to post my posts and go.

And I guess you'll have to forgive me for saying that the current moderators do not seem like roleplayers first, nor chatters first, they seem like 'sit on discord and do nothing all day' first. Which I know isn't their full job. But it seems like it. Which is what I've been saying a few times in this entire thread. It seems like nothing is happening. Community engagement does not come from the moderators, it comes from within the community through projects like the discord by @Cynder which you were a part of.


That Discord was also started with a former mod, and then had another former mod added in early on to help it along. Not current Mods, former ones. Current Mods also helped in various ways when asked. Put it a better way: people who cared about the Guild community and were active in it.

Speaking from a moderators perspective, sure, you might've paid to have this problem back then.


Incorrect. This was from a RPer/non-Mod perspective, as it was how I felt before I became a Mod.

But I am not speaking from a moderators perspective, and I for one am not happy about their seeming absence in light of our growing sense of lawlessness on this forum.


See above. Also this really doesn't seem all that lawless.

So once again. I am glad things have worked for you. I am glad you are happy with it. Not much else to add to that.

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Guess I'm glad I mostly RP, my clique problems just vanished.

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Yes, I know. It seems like they aren't.

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What are your suggestions on re-energizing these forums, then? Or are you of the opinion that they are very active and alive?


I've seen the Guild more active before. I've also seen it less active before. There's always been peaks and valleys.

Most community involvement projects will need help from moderators and preferably Mahz himself.


Think you'd be surprised with just how much can be done without either. But it would take actually trying.

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Think you'd be surprised with just how much can be done without either. But it would take actually trying.

With all do respect Ruby (and you know that I absolutely adore you), I don't think this is very fair to say. Not only am I part of this discussion, but I helped to create it alongside of Buddha and Grimhildr. We are trying and the purpose of making these topics is in an attempt to hear what others have to say, unite the community, and try to help the website that we love. I definitely think that my contributions of creating CynderTynder, Partner Supermatch, and the RPG Discord could be considered as trying, but perhaps it's possibly true that other people don't feel this way. I honestly don't really know anymore and I'm beginning to feel a bit jaded about the Guild.

I love this website and it's my first Roleplaying forum, but I'm beginning to think that I'm only staying out of loyalty for my current Roleplay partner. I want to hear your opinion and I want to hear everyone else's as I already said, all voices are equal. I think that the Guild is stagnating and even if that isn't true, there seems to an insanely hostile/toxic atmosphere across the board.

I want to know a way to fix these matters, but I don't think saying stuff like this is a step in the right direction.
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there seems to an insanely hostile/toxic atmosphere across the board.


Yeah. People are really angry and I'm not sure why.

Sometimes coming to the OOC sections of the site is like a meal with your abusive father. You're like: "Sooo.. I put bacon bits in the green beans" and he's like "FUCK BACON BITS" and flips the table over.

I don't know. It just seems like the amount of anger expressed is disproportionate to the inciting events. It would be unreasonable to expect people to never get angry but it seems like people get extremely angry over things that seem pretty mild. It's weird.
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With all do respect Ruby (and you know that I absolutely adore you), I don't think this is very fair to say. Not only am I part of this discussion, but I helped to create it alongside of Buddha and Grimhildr. We are trying and the purpose of making these topics is in an attempt to hear what others have to say, unite the community, and try to help the website that we love. I definitely think that my contributions of creating CynderTynder, Partner Supermatch, and the RPG Discord could be considered as trying, but perhaps it's possibly true that other people don't feel this way. I honestly don't really know anymore and I'm beginning to feel a bit jaded about the Guild.

I love this website and it's my first Roleplaying forum, but I'm beginning to think that I'm only staying out of loyalty for my current Roleplay partner. I want to hear your opinion and I want to hear everyone else's as I already said, all voices are equal. I think that the Guild is stagnating and even if that isn't true, there seems to an insanely hostile/toxic atmosphere across the board.

I want to know a way to fix these matters, but I don't think saying stuff like this is a step in the right direction.


Where was it, exactly, that I said you didn't (weren't) trying?

My point, and a few of your own examples prove: how much can be done without Mod/Mahz direct involvement.
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Yeah. People are really angry and I'm not sure why.

Sometimes coming to the OOC sections of the site is like a meal with your abusive father. You're like: "Sooo.. I put bacon bits int he green beans" and he's like "FUCK BACON BITS" and flips the table over.

I don't know. It just seems like the amount of anger expressed is disproportionate to the inciting events. It would be unreasonable to expect people to never get angry but it seems like people get extremely angry over things that seem pretty mild. It's weird.


This is nothing new to the OOC sections of the Guild.
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I'm probably not going to involve myself in the conversation at length. But as a member of one of the niche roleplaying communities in question (Tabletop, in particular), I felt that it was proper etiquette to share my opinion on the matter.

So, the issue at hand: People want the forum condensed and re-organized. I don't have much to address about this, but one solution that has been suggested was removing certain subforums entirely rather than reintegrating them elsewhere. Why? Because they're dead, of course! The whole lot of 'em!

Even if this were completely true, removing them wouldn't be a great solution. Even if there isn't an existing playerbase (which there is, and I'll get to that in a second), why would we alienate any newcomers or returning vets that are seeking that niche? The goal is to keep people in the site, not shoo them away because they have an unpopular taste.

My second point is that these communities aren't really as dead as the general perception. In my personal experience, the forum itself only shows the tip of the iceberg. Most of the roleplaying and ooc talk takes place in other programs entirely (particularly Discord and Skype). The result of this is that the interest checks are really the only things getting any eyes, while the real activity takes place off-site. If nothing more, the forum should act as gathering ground for people looking for a new group to play with.

So my opinion is that it'd be very kind of the roleplaying community and the moderators to maintain this site as a platform for the less than popular forms of play.
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Where was it, exactly, that I said you didn't (weren't) trying?

My point, and a few of your own examples prove: how much can be done without Mod/Mahz direct involvement.

You didn't directly say it, that's true, but the implication came across as "we aren't trying" and are relying too much on Moderator/Mahz involvement. I sincerely apologize if I read that wrong, but the rest of my post is still valid in the sense that I personally don't think trying doesn't make much of a difference anymore.

I've heard a million times that making a Guild Discord has not done anything as many Roleplays already have their own Discords and it's not "official". I can't mark it "official" and I don't know if the current Moderators can. It's true that the community can achieve quite a lot! At the end of the day, however, we're probably going to need at least a little help from Moderators and Mahz is what I'm trying to say, I suppose.
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You didn't directly say it, that's true, but the implication came across as "we aren't trying" and are relying too much on Moderator/Mahz involvement. I sincerely apologize if I read that wrong, but the rest of my post is still valid in the sense that I personally don't think trying doesn't make much of a difference anymore.

I've heard a million times that making a Guild Discord has not done anything as many Roleplays already have their own Discords and it's not "official". I can't mark it "official" and I don't know if the current Moderators can. It's true that the community can achieve quite a lot! At the end of the day, however, we're probably going to need at least a little help from Moderators and Mahz is what I'm trying to say, I suppose.


We? I never said anything directed at you. How can anything I said become "we"?

That double negative confused the hell out of me. Don't think trying doesn't make much of a difference? Trying is always more positive and productive than not trying, fair as it is sometimes a person just wants to stop, take a break, and RP a bit--for whatever reason. It's the entire reason most of us are on the Guild.

You've had two Moderators, one former Moderator, and one sub-forum Moderator already chime in here. You've had a little help, here.
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You've had two Moderators, one former Moderator, and one sub-forum Moderator already chime in here.


Moderator number 3 has been lurking under the radar here for some time -- just hasn't added to the conversation as of yet.

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Moderator number 3 has been lurking under the radar here for some time -- just hasn't added to the conversation as of yet.


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@Cynder said I could post this here so here goes:

Kind of unrelated to the current topic, but a few things that I really like about this website as opposed to the other options are:

One, the minimalism. I'll agree that things like reporting posts, searching, etc (possibly more tags, that's a personal preference), could do with being finished. That, of course, is a Mahz issue. That being said, I don't need/want a ton of frills when I write. I like things neat, and I like them organized to the best of my ability. So when I can open up the site and find exactly what I'm looking for without having to struggle with 50 different subforums and shit, it makes me feel more at home. Most of the other forums I've looked at have felt like they were trying too hard

Two, I like the OOC/IC/Char thread combination. That alone takes out so much of the clutter you see on other websites. Cue an example of me having to make an OOC and IC thread that linked to each other every time I wanted to make an RP on a different website, and now it's all contained. I would definitely like to have maybe one more "Lore" tab, just to keep things organized for me, but it's non-essential. I would also like to be able to delete posts I don't need, as well as be able to insert posts in threads I've created, just to organize things better. I recognize that this is wishful thinking and isn't likely to happen for a while.

Three, I somewhat like how the alerts system requires you to manually remove a lot of the notifications. It helps me not forget about things which are happening. However, it is a bit touchy and sometimes doesn't keep somethings while keeping others around forever.


One of the things I would like to see improved would be a few things previously stated: that is, being able to remove PMs that are super old. It's just a pet peeve, and I thought I'd throw some support for that into the ring, if anyone is listening.

And as for selecting new mods, it seems to me that, given there's not safe way to pick someone trustworthy, the only way to make progress is to bite the bullet, open up some kind of application, and have the current mods pick someone or multiple someones for the job. They might turn out to be shitty mods. They might not. If they do, the other (current) mods can remove them. It's not a great way to do it, but it is something.

There's probably more things I could say, but I can't really think of anything else rn

EDIT: this is again assuming that Mahz okays it, which is a hurdle naturally
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“If Mahz will even do it when he returns.”

Seems to sum up a lot of things, yeah?
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The mods are fairly involved in this thread, so maybe next time he shows up one of them could bring it up to him
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I don't think anyone has to remind him. He wants to do it, in everything I've ever seen from him on any level I've ever spoken to him. And he cares.

Tell everyone a story about Mahz and just how much he cares about the Guild:

When I was to become a Mod, we had a little talk about it in private. Pretty average chat on such a topic. What really shocked me? The only thing he REALLY wanted me to swear a bloodoath to? "Don't stop RPing. Don't let Modship make you quit RPing." He cared so much about the very core reason for the site, and about me personally not letting anything ruin that, that of ALL THE THINGS he could have asked me to swear to...that's what he picked. That's what was of supreme importance to Mahz. Probably the reason I'm still here, RPing on this site--because I promised him I wouldn't let anything ruin that.

He wants this site to be the best RPing experience it can be for everyone on the site. That's why he's created MORE RP sub-forums over the years instead of less. That's why he gave the IC/OOC/Character tabs. Tags. Even statuses and a status sidebar. I bet if he logged on right now, he could reel off a really impressive list of things he wants to get to. But the man's gotta eat, he's got life ambitions. And that's absolutely fair. This is a hobby for him, and he's given a lot more time and effort and blood/sweat/tears into it than I ever have, than any of us ever have.

So, no, I don't think any of the Mods needs to remind him like he doesn't care or just doesn't remember. And he probably doesn't need/want me saying any of this. But I've seen the guy work so hard, often thanklessly, over the years that I guess I felt I needed to say something.
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definitely good that you said it, it's easy to forget everything the man's done for us all. naturally there are still flaws to address, but it is important that no one takes what he does for granted, and i dont think anyone in this thread does
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Just remember, just because you respect or value the administrator and all of his work [you would be really self-entitled if you didn’t] it doesn’t absolve him of constructive criticism on policy, management, or design choices. Mahz is a good administrator who like many coders is juggling a lot and I am very understanding of that fact. I started RPing here on my first account many years ago, and I’ve seen the progress in spades when he is available and I am sure when he returns he will continue to update the site. I just really hope he takes the valid critiques given with some degree of understanding.

Mahz is not infallible. That said, I wish him the best going forward and I am optimistic towards RPG as a site.
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@Isotope Any ideas specifically on what causes that, how we can fix it, if there is even a clear problem or if people are just not interested in NRP? I've tried a few times, and never got lucky with good GM's it seems.

As someone that often goes to the NRP section and roleplays there, I have to say that there are a lot of roleplays that died due to a lack of communication. And communication is a must if you want your NRP to be successful. If the GM or an important player disappears without warning, then the rest will just leave. The users there, in my opinion, are the types that you need to watch for. Because, they will either disappear on you or start drama. If you look at some of the old threads, then you will see how the roleplay died. And the GMs don't seem

The solution to dealing with the NRP section (and I know that some of them might hate this) is to delete it. It will never become popular because we barely have any GMs determined to saving their roleplays for the jaws of death. And we have users that often leave one NRP and join another. I am not sure if it's worth saving the section at all given it's current state.

And I should mention that there are too much sci-fi and fantasy NRPs to count. Not enough roleplays that are unique get the attention that they deserve. I agree with what @Isotope said in his post about how NRP will never become a popular section. I hope that the rest of the NRP community takes a look at our comments and have a discussion with us.
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Oh boy, reading through 7 pages and probably even more as it took me forever to read and address things that I want to ask. I also really hope this doesn't get me in trouble. >.< So I'll start of by thanking @Buddha for making this thread. People who have participated and the mods who have responded. Thank you for doing your best to keep this forum I place that I go to for entertainment! <3 (and if I perish, it was nice knowing you all. ;_;)

Okay, onto the various topics I'd like to address. (Apologize for how scattershot, it may be or if it comes off as confusing or offensive. Did my best to express my opinions fairly and organize my many points.)











6. Other (Just general replies to other members for things I'd consider off topic from my main point.)

As far as the sub-forums go, I think there should be a smut and non smut section for the 1x1s because I too feel uncomfortable with certain themes getting lumped in alongside the more 'family friendly' ones.
Also Casual RP could be split into Low-Mid-High casual just for the sake of more space.


Yay, the very little college I've done has finally come in handy. Website design 101 usually goes against that idea, the more compact and simple the forum is the better. So splitting up one forum into three of them. Just adds more clutter to the site...it also currently closely resembles other sites, which is good for familiarity sake. I really absolutely have no problems or concerns with how the site should look at this current time.

I haven't read through everything yet but I do believe that maybe we should as a whole venture more into the introduction area and greet newcomers,ask them how they are, what kind of role plays they like, and generally make them feel like they're entering into a positive community.
It's not an overnight solution and wont yield the best results, but it's better than snobbing them and not even making an effort.


Agreed with being more friendly and chatty to new members. One thing I've brought up before but literally one person's job on the forum (that I was once on.) was to greet people who made introductions...which is why I want Sub-Mods to be a thing seriously discussed.

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yeah, i'm shit with words, but i still stand by the point: what's the point in letting them all have separate subforums, if they're rarely ever active?


Because, there different things and niche's. And like the video game industry needs to understand one day. There's nothing wrong with supporting a niche...But to playfully ask a question, what do we do about the things considered inactive? Move them all to a sub-forum called. "The abandoned stuff no ones cares about." How will that help newer members being introduced to them? xP

Maybe this is a bit of a far reach but I've thought about doing give away's. But perhaps it's an idea to add a more.. physical prize. Or at least something worth remembering. Gives people a reason to participate. It's far fetched, but it'd be something to think on.


It's not completely outlandish, I've said anything to make the forum more of an active community the better. There's plently of things that could be done. Would just need somebody to do them...

I've literally done this on a forum before, I made a youtube contest that was a spin off on american idol and had members sing and I'd embarrass myself and act as a host. And promised a grand prize to the winner. :P

And though the only thing I got out of it was friends and made a couple people very popular when they learned they could sing. xP (and a huge target on my back because nice people are hated online I guess.)

But I digress, I don't think it would hurt at all for somebody to create a podcast or have some kind of twitch streamed gaming night. If someone has a little income they're doing nothing with, it could be easy to grant prizes...hell it wouldn't even be that costly...maybe a winner of whatever contest is created could win like a humble bundle of games, which literally would cost a dollar. :P

And maybe, giving strangers online money or prizes seems absurd to you (the possible reader, not you.) But there's people that buy their best friends thousand dollar computers simply because their appreciated. Or maybe makes a dumb contest simply to make a community have something going for it. They exist and could be more than willing to do so. As long as they believed and loved the community at large.

Okay, damn I was just picking names at random, I didn't know you and the Doctor had history, regardless the others I mentioned plus at least 4 more i could name are all chill people. I'm sure you dont think all Trump supporters are racist, so lets not assume that all Arena RPers are trolls.


Come on now, you're better than this. Save the political riffing and memes for your thread. ;P
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