Oh come on now. Can't write that much shit and not be a little patronizing.
If the land has an Armenian majority, than it is Armenian in reality and only Turkish in the abstract. The Armenians are fighting for more than just an idea, they are also fighting for their farms and their neighborhoods.
And the Turks did fight. But i'm not sure what you expected them to do. The Turks are a nationalistic people, but if they had no faith in their government and their government was just no longer capable of holding together, how would they react? It takes faith in the system to make the war work, and a system you can have faith in. It's not like all the Turks could just buy rifles and walk over to Armenia. They might be angry, they might be ashamed, but what is your average guy gonna do about it? If you cannot actually rise to a position of prominence, and those positions of prominence are held by a small nobility of people who think they deserve what they have by right rather than doing anything to earn it, then you are stuck in a broken system. And that is extremely disheartening. A system this broken, where all the wealth is pooled at the top, also creates a situation where you aren't actually rewarded for service to your country. Not really. Work hard and it just gets you a bad back. Fight hard and you just end up shot. And then nobody has faith.
Really, it comes back to the Ataturk thing. Post-Ottoman Turkey has a lot of potential, but somebody has to join as them for that potential to become something.