[OOC] Growing Up | It's Anything But Simple

[Lady Absinthia]

@lydyn A smile and a thanks after just getting punched in the jaw and knocked onto ones butt is mostly ignoring someone? Um okay. Actually beings up a question - did she totally forget that Tas said her father died? Or is Rose really that much of a ~can't think of a decent none cursing word here~ to go on in her mind that much about pity party and such? Tas never said she was upset over her birthday to anyone, Claire said on top of everything she had forgotten and couldn't blame her for being mad. (Just trying to get where Rose is coming from - don't want to think Rose is that much of b**** if she really isn't lol)

[lydyn]

@Lady Amalthea - Yeah, to be honest, I do feel like my character is being a little attacked here... I'm sorry you don't like her that much?... but again, you must've misunderstood my wording. "Of course, Rose understood it was more than that..." She heard Tas just fine, actually. You have to understand where Rose stands in the sense that her father died, her mother couldn't give two fucking shits about her, none of her family gave a damn, she's never really had friends, or lovers, or anyone to really be there in her life. So... no, she can't relate that well. If her mother died, she'd be sad, but she'd almost kind of move on with life... after all, her mother didn't really love her at all.

Lastly, to Rose, yes... just saying thank you and go on about something completely different and hardly acknowledging her afterwards is mostly ignoring - to her. It's because most people DO ignore her and abandon her and reject her. So of course she translates this past experience to new people, like we all do. I really am sorry if you don't like Rose...

[Lady Absinthia]

@lydyn It's not that I don't like her, I am trying to figure out where she is coming from and such with the way she is thinking. Tas's mother died when she was young, her father pushed her away because of it. She grew up with no friends, keeping her nose in a book studying. Had few relationships, hard break ups (one a couple of weeks ago), couldn't get close to anyone. Her father dying without fixing that void hit hard plus she became a doctor because she couldn't help her mother, then her father died right there with her even though she was a doctor now. So yeah, Tas out of all the character would understand better than anyone exactly where Lydyn is coming from since their histories are very similar.

Now granted Rose hasn't said these thoughts outloud to anyone but for me as the Rper, I just wanted to get a better understanding. Some characters are just jerks, others have logical reasons behind thoughts and actions. Why I asked. Is anything but an attack.

[lydyn]

@Lady Amalthea Okay, sorry... guess the tone and stuff got lost in text. ^.^ Yeah, she's really not a bitch. She really does care, just some things get lost on her. Or maybe a lot of things can get lost on her... and she can get confused why people are upset. It doesn't help that she's an empath and tends to feel the mood of others. So sometimes she gets defensive and frustrated over feeling emotions she doesn't understand the reason for. That's all. =)

[Lady Absinthia]

@lydyn Ahh, see that plus backstory help more. Let's me get a better feel. Thankies!

[lydyn]

@Lady Amalthea You're welcome! ^.^ Of course she knows some of this already, which is why she keeps her thoughts to herself, haha.

[Lady Absinthia]

@lydyn Think maybe we should get Tas and Rose together, maybe over drinks so they'll both open up. Think once they see how much in common they have from growing up they could actually get to be rather good friends. Both understanding where the other is coming from on a deeper level than many in the group could understand.

[lydyn]

@Lady Amalthea Yep! Rose would definitely feel more comfortable around someone who understood her! I agree. ^.^ Though note Rose isn't into drinking alcohol - just some ooc tadbit there. =3 I really like that idea though. ^.^

[Lady Absinthia]

@lydyn Yeah, neither is Tas why I am thinking it wouldn't take much, lmao. Make the bartender screw up their "virgin" drinks :P

[lydyn]

@Lady Amalthea Oh dear, hahah, that's terrible. xDDD

[lydyn]

@Charnobylisk@Universorum I'll be totally honest right now... after the rant Cass went on with, she def got points with Rose, haha. I have a feeling Belle is going to shrug it off though... xDDD

[Charnobylisk]

@lydyn Lol. Cool.

Yeah, I mean if Belle shrugs it off, she shrugs it off. It wasn't said to try and change Belle or anything. It was just Cass getting her agitation off her chest because she doesn't hold onto her anger. She unleashes it and then gets on with life, haha. :D

[lydyn]

@Charnobylisk Yeah, haha. I was just... predicting. xD Cass is pretty awesome though, so far. =3 PinkTink. xD

[lydyn]

@Lady Amalthea ... at least Rose isn't a Belle? xDDD Though you can see what I mean, from her eyes... hardly anyone is mentioning her or saying anything - except Belle, who kind of went off on a self-absorbed rant... so does that even count? Haha. Then again, Rose is pretty quiet around strangers. =3

[Charnobylisk]

@lydyn Cass spoke to her! Eventually. Sure she then moved onto other things but we all got shit to do. :P

[Lady Absinthia]

@lydyn LMAO, yeah. Claire is beyond protective of those she cares about - comes from being in a huge family. With Claire being the only girl, Tas is the closest thing to a sister she has ever had. So she is going to rip people apart for her, lol

[Hey Im Jordan]

@lydyn@Charnobyliskbelle's going to make silly mocking noises and move her hand like it's a mouth.

[Charnobylisk]

@Universorum Please make her do that right in Cass's face. Make her come out to the parking lot and do it right in front of her. I am begging you.

[Hey Im Jordan]

@CharnobyliskNegative

[Charnobylisk]

@Universorum Welp, you're boring.