Alot better thanks to my brother, in the end I can talk to him about anything and he helps me out all the time.
I managed to scrounge some time to post but there appears to have been a thing and so may have to wait a little longer. But I will say that it wouldn't hurt to let some time pass before making a decision @Gareth. If you're emotions are running high then that wouldn't be very conducive to great decision making, you know what I'm sayin. But hey, that's just another one of my suggestions. Good luck at any rate.