@Letter Bee Sheesh, I don't mean you 😏, we all are guilty of said episodes, dealing with you is like taking care of a girlfriend and if you put it in bi-terms, the Uke One 😂

@Letter Bee Sheesh, I don't mean you 😏, we all are guilty of said episodes, dealing with you is like taking care of a girlfriend and if you put it in bi-terms, the Uke One 😂

I was trying to express my support for you, DanDan.

I have one, and it relates to the tired old "friends to lovers" trope. Not saying friends can't become lovers, but being friends first is a terrible dating strategy! A one-way ticket to the friend zone.

To be clear, women don't put us in the friend zone. We put ourselves there by being passively pleasing pushovers.

My big one is rushing. Moving through an RP, pushing from big moment to big moment just to be dome with it. Especially annoying when it means leaving someome behind purely because they're not online to keep up.

I have one, and it relates to the tired old "friends to lovers" trope. Not saying friends can't become lovers, but being friends first is a terrible dating strategy! A one-way ticket to the friend zone.

To be clear, women don't put us in the friend zone. We put ourselves there by being passively pleasing pushovers.

I don’t know, I kind of like friends to lovers. I like when they go from BFFs, to BFFs who kiss and hold hands. It’s so cute if it’s done right!

It’s enemies to lovers I don’t particularly care for. With friends to lovers, there’s a foundation there. You really expect me to believe two people who hate each others guts can suddenly become lovey without one or both radically changing who they are? No…

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I don’t know, I kind of like friends to lovers. I like when they go from BFFs, to BFFs who kiss and hold hands. It’s so cute if it’s done right!

It’s enemies to lovers I don’t particularly care for.

Eh, for every example done right, you have 99 done wrong. I prefer characters who make their intentions known from the start, instead of resorting to guises and manipulation to get what they believe they're entitled to. :P

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Eh, for every example done right, you have 99 done wrong. I prefer characters who make their intentions known from the start, instead of resorting to guises and manipulation to get what they believe they're entitled to. :P

That’s fair.

When I think of pet peeves, I think of mostly harmless behavior that just annoys me personally, like loudly chewing with your mouth open in public and smacking your lips when you clean the Dorito dust off your fingers oh my God James please stop you're actually a savage.

If I have an RP pet peeve it's that moment when I've just had my character have a passionately negative interaction with another player's character and I immediately see them typing in my DMs on Discord. I know what it is. "Hey, we cool?" I get it, you're trying to be the most unproblematic person you can possibly be, and I actually love you for it, but please stop, because now my own overthinking ass is wondering if I'm subtly coming across as a self-inserter with an axe to grind rather than someone trying to play a flawed character and maybe I'm the asshole for not communicating OoC ahead of time that my character was going to snap at yours but if I do that you might think I want you to edit your post and we'd get robbed of an interesting character moment for both of us and yeah I'm not letting that happen sorry I'm an IC drama queen.

Yeah I'm probably the problem. That's what I think of when I think of pet peeves though.

"Hey, wanna RP?"

And have that be it in a message.

Like I get it, reaching out to someone can be a little nerve-wracking. And sometimes people I'm sure just send off a quick message so they don't forget to message. But. BUT. When its someone who clearly hasn't read your intchk... I get annoyed. And I try not to be. But I am. ^^;

I've got quite a few, although I think they're all pretty typical. Like spotlighting, lack of consequences for character actions (especially negative ones), deus ex machina (like idc if it's a poor setup. Something is better than causing whiplash), metagaming, and inconsistent characters. Those are the only ones that come to mind really.

When I think of pet peeves, I think of mostly harmless behavior that just annoys me personally, like loudly chewing with your mouth open in public and smacking your lips when you clean the Dorito dust off your fingers oh my God James please stop you're actually a savage.

A pet peeve, pet aversion, or pet hate is a minor annoyance that an individual finds particularly irritating to a greater degree than the norm.

I'd have to say that's spot on.

And on that;

Why do people have an issue with a disabled person *playing* a disabled character? I always make people aware I have disabilites and how they can impact me in terms of reply times, needing reminding to respond, etc.

I get "yeah but playing as an autistic/deaf character is still wrong you're making the disabilities seem like fiction and making me feel uncomfortable playing against a disabled character/writer" as if I am doing it to be an arsehole.

As someone who is autistic and ADHD, it is very hard for me to write a 'genuine' neurotypical OC, and I've had people tell me they're 'uncanny' and 'robotic.'

When a GM/OP keeps the lion's share of relevant lore behind the wall of their RP's private Discord server. Specifically in the case of publicly open RPs.

Also GMs setting up their own personal blogs in their RP's Discord. Cringe at best; attention-seeking/self-centered at worst.

When a GM/OP keeps the lion's share of relevant lore behind the wall of their RP's private Discord server. Specifically in the case of publicly open RPs.

Also GMs setting up their own personal blogs in their RP's Discord. Cringe at best; attention-seeking/self-centered at worst.

Wait what do you mean by the second o.O?

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Wait what do you mean by the second o.O?

I had been in an RP in which the GM had a section in the Discord server that basically functioned as a journal/blog. They'd write about past experiences and vent about stuff in it.

It only ever happened once, but it was enough for me to red flag it on my way out. Just like... keep your RP's Discord focused on the RP. It's one thing of stuff to come out organically in conversation. It's another thing entirely to set up a spot specifically designated for writing about one's self in that kind of environment. Rubbed me the wrong way.