As for there being more "events" for players to react to, I think as long as the work is coordinated among an active team and not one person I think that can work.
A bit of real talk, something that I've been thinking about and that I'm sure has been discussed before: are we placing too much pressure-to-perform on ourselves?
I start to develop a mentality of "no post is better than a bad post." That starts becoming a whole negative-feedback-thing, where I feel bad for not posting, so I start writing a post, and then I burn myself out trying to make it perfect, then I end up not posting it, and then I feel bad for not posting, etc.
It might be easier to jump in and start jamming with each other than when everyone has to spend weeks or months establishing their particular lore before venturing out to cross paths. More often than not, that leads to less of a group roleplay and more of a collection of individual fanfics with the occasional crossover.
Hey now, there's like, at least 4 male characters out there. If all of them make the cut, you'd have almost 50/50 gender split.
"And I took that personally" —Zyran probably
Again. You guys are all free to continue, I just am not in a position to GM myself